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i kinda like my friends b.f but i dk
to start off i am 15/female.. but okay, so i have liked this one kid for like.. at least 2 years now and he knows.. so anyways i will probably ALWAYS like him but that has really nothing to do with what im asking.. but anyways, almost a year ago i met this other kid and im pretty good friends with him now, but him & one of my friends have been going out now for almost 9 months.. and since ive spent a lot of time with him & what not im starting to like him more and more.. but its only SOMETIMES that i feel like i like him.. i feel wierd just typing this, but when im around him he just always makes me laugh & im not sure if i just love him company or if i actually like him.. i dont know what to do.. ahh its wierd.
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Well first of all, just think about yourself and him being together as a couple. Can you picture it? Does it make you happy and not weird you out? If so, it seems to me you like him. But just remember, it's probably just one of the thousand teenage crushes you're going to get. Is he really worth losing a friend over who'll always be there for you, when even if you two dated you could possibly break up and it all be kaput? That sometimes happens with me too. You can never understand if you're just enjoying their company, or if it's more. But like I said, imagine yourself being with him like, boyfriend and girlfriend and kissing, etc. and see if you're weirded out by it or anything. I hope I helped.
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Ok. So you may wanna tread carefully there. Since your mate is also dating this guy I would suggest to not mention anything, otherwise you may lose your friend, and from experience at your age, a friend is better then any boy. Normally it comes out to a teenage crush but in the end I know you will make the right decision.
Good luck
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