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no more grief plz!!
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my brother died about four years ago on a motorcycle accident
i still get sad over it and i dont like it i dont feel like being sad all the time i know it happened a long time ago but sometimes like at night i start to think abbout things that we used to do and he used to do and i just start crying
at times ive been up crying up till 5in the morning on school nights
im sick of crying myself to sleep every night
plz help or just say something !!!
anything !!!
keep it zen !!!
thanx !!!
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wow i kind of know how you feel. thought nobady can fully understand. my brother died 3 years ago in a car accident and it still hurts. I miss him so much. we were so close. im better now but i still miss im like crazy. i learned that things happen. life isnt always fair and you dont always get what you deserve. i was a wreck, but what helped me was talking to friends an family. i also went to counseling. i know it sounds weird. you might not want to go but trust me if you talk to somebody you can learn ways of dealing with greif and living more normally again. cause i know nothing can be the same. i also started going to church and got a lot closer to God. i had a lot of questions and got answers. i know it may not look like it now, but this happening could bring some good things too, like appreciateing life and getting to know God and living to the fullest. im not saying that this is a good thing, cause no doubt would i give up anything to get my brother back again. im so sorry this happened.
i hope i helped a little =/
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Times are tough and it sucks.
I sometimes stay up late thinking about bad thoughts or negative feelings.
The best way to cope your feelings is to write it down in a diary , it will help you express yourself and think about all the good times you had with him and be happy you had all those good times.Also, do something to take your mind off him, if his past is coming into your mind , read a magazine, turn on the tv or the computer or catch up on some studying or listen to music, it will change the way you think of things.
Hope I was a help!
--Kendra
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Lucky 4 me nothing like that has happened to me like that but I am sorry to hear what happened. Sometimes things like that happen and you just got to think there's nothing you can do and things are just how they are but would your brother want u to cry every night? Sometimes life sucks but there r many other people like u out there
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I know what your going through, one of my best friends, died of cancer, last year. On october 3rd, it will be a year actually. I've gotten alot better since then, thanks to my friends & family. When it first happened, I cried myself to sleep every night too. What I did, was I told people how I felt, I talked to my mom & all my friends, they really helped me. Have you done that? You could also see a therapist, my friend did that. & hes still out of it. But, hes moved on alot, since it. So, yeah I'd try that.
I hope I helped kbye (:
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