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Should I just give up on trying to be his friend again?
I asked a question about my friend, Mark, last Tuesday. The people who answered my question said that I should ask him why he won't talk to me. So, I left him a comment on myspace three days ago and I asked him why we don't talk to each other anymore. Today I looked at the last time he's logged on myspace and it was two days ago. He didn't respond or talk to me yet. It's really bothering me. All I have been thinking about for the past four weeks is if I did anything wrong. How can I get him to talk to me again?
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I agree with below. A real friend wouldn't ignore you and hurt you.
But, if I were you, I'd give it one last chance, and if he stills insists on not answering, then my advice would be to just move on also.
Just message him one last time on myspace or call him, IM him, whatever. I would suggest calling him or IMing him more than messaging, because then that sort of [ not FORCES ] but gets him to talk to you, because you already know he's on, he's reading what you're saying, etc. And just ask him if you did anything wrong, because you really want to know why he won't talk to you anymore and it's hurting your feelings. If he'd just talk about it, you'd really like to try and fix things because you'd really like to be friends and talk to him.
But, like I said, if that doesn't work and he still doesn't talk, you'll just have to move on. Find better friends who actually want to talk to you, and not just sit there and try not to fix their friendships with people.
I hope I helped.
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Remember this. No one who makes you sad or hurts you in anyway is a friend. You have done what you could best to move on. His loss, maybe he is mentaly ill or just slow...
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