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Crush & Friends Advice
14/f
Last night (Friday), I went to my crushes house. I was there with 5 other guys, and 1 other girl (who left early). Anyways, my crush made it totally obvious that he liked me. The thing is, even though he is really funny, every one is always saying how annoying he is. I've also never had a boyfriend, and I guess you could say I'm pretty, just not hott.
Anyways, I am basically almost positive he likes me, but I don't know its just pretty awkward, and I really dont know what to do.
The other thing is, my group of friends have never really dated either, and its because they don't really hang out with guys. So when I told them I was going to his house with 5 other guys, they were like acting really wierd.
I'm kind of sick of these friends, and I sort of want to hang around with a new crowd (not such a prude-ish crowd)
So I need help on either question: What should I do about my crush, and what should I do about my friends
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If you both like each other, don't let what other people say stop you from going out with him. If people think he's annoying, so what as long as he doesn't bother you. For now, just flirt with him and get to know him better. You'll find out if you really like him or not and you'll see how he acts. Don't rush into anything. The reason your friends are acting so weird is because they don't know how you feel and they never been in your position. Don't just blow them off because they're shy and prude. You should still go out and meet new people but they will always be your friends no matter how dumb they act. If you don't want to be friends with them, that's your choice but don't hurt them over something like that. Let them think whatever they want. As long as you're happy, that's all that matters.
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Aw, I love these questions :)
As for the boy, flirt alot. Who cares what other people say about him? If that REALLY bugs you, then maybe he isn't meant for you after all. Ask him to hang out again, maybe just the two of you. Hold his hand if you get the chance, that way he`ll get the picture you like him too. Or hug him goodbye if you wish. Talk to him alot, laugh cute-ly when he says something funny, Just be super confident, guys love that. Touch his arm when you talk to him, like playfully grab his arm when you get scared. Over time, he should get the picture you like him and hopefully ask you out!
And for your friends, I had the same problem. It was really hard for me to let go of them, but now I'm so glad I moved on. Just find some people that you relate to and people that understand you. You don't have to completley ditch your old friends if you don't want too, but as for me, I'm pretty much done with that crowd. Maybe throw a sleepover for you and your new friends. Everything should be smooth sailing from there :)
Good Luck <3
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Consider murdering your friends. One time a french guy got his limbs ripped off by horses and was placed on a grill. Contrary to popular belief, this is a righteous way to deal with problems. Just ask a Catholic.
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well if you think hes not annoying then you shouldnt worrie about what others think thats their oppinion.. if you like him and he likes you then go out wit him... as long as ur happy then thats all that matters.. if their true friends then they would be happy wit your desicion and just be happy for you but if their not then you no that their not true friends.. and your friends you should try to convience them to hang out with guys more.. but if you want just tell them your tired of that group and you want to like have a new group and that you moved on from that group.. they might not hang out witt guys because they think its wrong just ask them.. no matter wats your answer do wat you think might be right for you and maybe them... they might not like guys i mean thats their desicion just like yours is to or not to go out with that guy.
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there is a few things you can do. first of all, try not judging your crush by what other people say. just because other people think he's annoying, doesn't mean you have to think that or that he is. spend more time with him & build your own opinion on it. however you feel, go by that. your friends, well this problem is really common. everyone either likes being with their friends all through school & some don't. just because you want to hang out with a different crowd, doesn't mean you have to forget your old one. why not try having both?? if it doesn't work out, then you can pick one to stick with. explain to your friends how you feel. you should be open & honest with them.
-hope that helped!♥
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