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Should I??
Well... there is this guy (lets call him Jamie).(sorry if its a little long) He's okay but not the hottest guy I've ever seen. He's smart, funny and he's a good friend of mine. My friend Ashlyn and I always hang out with Jamie, another friend named ryan and a few other boys. That Jamie kid likes me though. We play truth or dare and all sorts of stuff outside. Everytime it's his turn he always picks me. He always smiles at me and follows me around. He flirts like crazy with me. Last night it was his turn for truth or dare, he asked my best friend if I liked him and if I would go out with him and stuf like that. She just said I dont know, because she didnt want to hurt his feeling, afterall he is her cousin. Soo... i think he's going to ask me out like SooN! But I dont want to go out with him. It would be weird. We see each other like everyday after school. What should i do to break it to him gently but still be friends. (oh and make sure there isnt any weird tension going on) Thanks :) Should I say yes? or no? I need help!
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Be honest.
If you dont like him you need to tell him the truth, instead of leading him on.
But it doesnt help if you were flirting with him back, because that was giving him the wrong signal. Theres nothing you can do to take the weird tension away, its going to be there, but if you are really good friends, you'll be able to bounce back from it quickly.
best of luck hun.
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Well, it won't be totally normal right after you say no. If you don't want to go out with him, don't.
Just say "I'd really just stay friends. I like you in a firend way and I really value this friendship and I feel that if we do break up in the long run, it will just destroy the valuable friendship."
And reassure him that he has nothing to be emberrased about and the next time you see him, act like NOTHING happened and make it easier for him to just move on
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