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crushes goshness!
i like this guy right i'm a little mad at him though NE way i also met some new friends and one of the girls likes him too and her/my friends trying to hook them up but i like him too and i don't wanna be rude and not let them get with eachother but he doesn't even know her he knows me i have all my classes with him and i really think he likes me too because the way he acts.
what should i do help please.
-KikiJ (15/f)
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oh no. boyfriend tension between two girls! ahh.
If you really like this guy enough to not let this other girl not be able to go out with him, you should tell your friends.
Tell you friends that you like this guy and you're feeling jealous that they are trying to hook this stranger up with your crush. And make sure that they don't tell the other girl
OR you just simply ask him out. =]
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Well you have two choices here...
You can swoop in, tell this guy that you like him and see if he will go out with you. Doing this means he will be yours if he feels the same way but at what price? You will have the guy that you like and although you shouldn't always care what other people think, you would need to be prepared for the slating you would get from your friends, this girl and her friends for moving in on a man that you know was already marked as her potential.
The alternative (and the one I would recommend) is to leave things as they are for now. I know it's not favourable because you don't want to see this guy going out with another girl but look at it this way, if he turns her down, you are free to make your move because he wasn't interested in her. If they go out now, they will most likely break up at some point and again, after a short time has passed, you will be able to make your move without fear of guilt.
Ultimately it is your choice and nobody can make it for you but you may need to just step aside for now, so you don't look like a bad person and can have him when he's free and you aren't likely to suffer for it.
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