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i just dont know ...
okay well about 8 m,onths ago me and my closest friend got into this huge fight that last about 7 months. well when school started we realized that we had a alot of classes together so we starteed talking again and then i did cheerleading and one of my other friends made the team with me. the other girl that i got into a fight with absolutely hates her but i want to be friends with both of the, && idk how without the other person getting madd
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I was in this same situation in high skool...my best friend was makin me choose between her and this other girl (who she didnt like). I chose to befriend both of them...it ended with my best friend not talkin to me for 3 months, but she eventually got over it, and decided it wasn't worth losing my friendship.
never give up the chance to make new friends...thats what helps us grow into better, stronger people. :)
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Ok you want to be with friends with both but you can't choose one just cuz the other person don't like the other. You shouldn't have to make that choice and if they really were your friends they wouldn't make you choose or even get mad at you for speaking to them. Tell them they don't have to like the other, but i want to and if you hate me because i want to talk to them then you not a real friend. Thats what i would say, but don't make that decision, you shouldn't have to.
hope I helped!!!!
*Victoria*
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The two girls will work it out or not, but it is not up to you to entertain them both by being the peacemaker. It is their problem and not yours. They need to deal with the fact in life that they don't get to pick or have to approve of your friends! Eventually they will learn to get along, or the more stubborn and controlling of the girls will leave because she has decided that you are not worth the trouble. No loss there! Hopefully they will work it out, but if one leaves, then you know the one that stayed was the better friend.
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