Hey my name is Victoria, Tori for short and I'm here to answer ur questions so give me a holla and i will be glad to answer u the best way i can.
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well here is the problem
I'm 14 years old and a female (duhh)
okay and i never got asked out and i never had a boyfriend. But the weird thing is that my best friend (he's a guy) told me that i'm the hottest girl in school AND every grown up (even some teachers) tell my parents i am soooo pretty and when i'm outside or in school all the boys look after me. But i dont get it they dont talk to me or anything they just stare at me in class or whatever. soo i JUST DONT GET IT. dont tell me to talk to them because everytime i trie they just look away and give me short answers
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I used to be like that all the guys would just stare and tell me i'm pretty but never wanted to go out. But I became more comfident around them. Thats what you have to do act more out spoken around them if they tell you your pretty say thanks and I think your sexy to. You know what i'm sayin just flirt with them a little. It worked fo me I get asked out now because i'm out spoken and don't care what they think.
hope i helped
*Victoria*
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okay well about 8 m,onths ago me and my closest friend got into this huge fight that last about 7 months. well when school started we realized that we had a alot of classes together so we starteed talking again and then i did cheerleading and one of my other friends made the team with me. the other girl that i got into a fight with absolutely hates her but i want to be friends with both of the, && idk how without the other person getting madd (link)
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Ok you want to be with friends with both but you can't choose one just cuz the other person don't like the other. You shouldn't have to make that choice and if they really were your friends they wouldn't make you choose or even get mad at you for speaking to them. Tell them they don't have to like the other, but i want to and if you hate me because i want to talk to them then you not a real friend. Thats what i would say, but don't make that decision, you shouldn't have to.
hope I helped!!!!
*Victoria*
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16, female :)
well right now im such a confused person! my love life is very confusing and i just have so many mixed feelings. you see i was friends with this kid and we flirted and like wrestled and were physical with each other but we never did anything like kiss or whatever! but then he got a girlfriend and i was like okay no more flirting but he still KINDA does it not as much though. sometimes if i dont see him im like okay i dont like him, just as a friend! and then right when i see him..even if i just have to like pick him up from somewhere (he is 15) i start thinking...my feelings are coming back. he is so in love with his girlfriend even though they have only been going out for like 2 months now but it was her birthday today and he got her this sweatshirt or whatever..but they were suppose to do something after his homecoming football game ..he is on varsity and he was going to miss the dance afterwards to be with her (they go to different schools) but he called her i guess and she never answered and she never called him to invite him over..and she had other people over too! he was really bummed and all of us could tell i felt REALLY bad =( but then its like..i think he just thinks of me as JUST A FRIEND. and everyone thinks that highschool changed his girlfriend and she is really stuckup and they think she is going to break up with him but i dont know! i wish we could go back to the whole flirting thing, but if she does break up with him he will be so heartbroken and upset..i just dont know what i want! what do you think? im not going to talk to him about this because its just..that his mind isnt going to change and either is his feelings about her. he is so adorable though and treats his girl so good and loves her so much its really cute and i get jealous. its like some of me wants to be over him and wish my feelings would go away and like just think of him as a good friend but then the other part of me wants to be WITH him....
what should i do? (link)
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Well if she does break up with him, your there to help him get through it all you know like be there when he is all sad and everything then he could start to see that your the one who cares about him a lot and if they don't break up then just move on talk to other guys to get your mind off him.
*Victoria*
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Ok so i started back at college and i was in the common room and i saw a cute boy he was talking to all my friends and every so often he looked at me and we made eye contact and he smiled so i smiled back but hes not even said hello to me!!!!! he just kept looking at me and i looked back. So the question im asking is what shall i do now???i told my friend i liked him and he said talk to him but im too shy.??? im 18 female at college thanks for your help. (link)
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Ok you really want to talk to him but your to shy so when he is talking to your friends just go over and stand by your friends and get in the conversation, then be like oo by the way my name is______. If you do that most likely he will talk to you from then on.
*Victoria*
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i met this amazing guy through my best friend. and we've never met in person. i was going to go to the homecoming football game with him and meet him there... but that plan got shot when my aunt called and said that her wedding rehersal is the same night as the football game. her actual wedding is on the saturday of the homecoming dance so there goes that plan too. we've been trying to meet for a while now. we were going to meet tomorrow (friday) at the football game but he has to go out of town suddenly. What im wondering is, should i invite him to my aunts wedding? i would rather be with him a couple of times before i introduce him to my wierdo family. (they are pretty out there.) but, should i just ask him and see what he wants to do? or shouold i not? (link)
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Yeah I think you should see if he wants to go to the wedding with you, I mean if he likes you he would go if you asked him.
*victoria*
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so me & this kid justin we hooked up a couple times in the summer. we both said we didnt want it just to be a booty call. so at school we have geometry together.we talk but not too much which i would love to talk to him more. we probably would be closer but he got his phone taken away from him for awhile because he got caught drinking which im fine with. i just need to be able to bring up more convo during geometry to talk about with him. like me & him are close but like we have that type of relationship where we make fun of eachother and like when he walks past my desk and always like hits my pencil while im writing for like tap me on the cheek like kidding around like flirting and stuff. but like i want a relationship cause i like him a lot but i wanna go slow. like how can i just like keep a convo going. like sometimes he'll walk me to my next class but then other days he wont. i really like it when he does so i need ways to be like taking to him so he'll automatically walk that way. thanksss.
by the way. im 14 - freshman.
and he is - 15 sophmore. (link)
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ok well you wanna go slow but you still want a relationship with him so to keep a conversation going when the class is over just start one up like what are you doin after school or what are you doin this weekend, would you like to go to the movies or sumthin, you know what i mean
*victoria*
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hi im a 15 year old guy (soph) and i like this frosh girl in my geometry class..i met her about 2 years ago and havent seen her since and now i do everyday and at the highschool football games...we are going to hang out on fridaynight at the football game at our highschool and then on saturday night if she can hang out..should it be just me and her or me her her friend and my friend (her friend likes my friend and the 4 of us r pretty muych all friends, but thats not the point) thanks in advance for the help! (link)
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Well umm it depends if you want to just be alone with the girl and just spend time with her but if you think it goin to be a little unconfortable, then you might want your friends there to.
*victoria*
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