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Mixed feelings..he has a girflriend...i keep falling for him
16, female :)
well right now im such a confused person! my love life is very confusing and i just have so many mixed feelings. you see i was friends with this kid and we flirted and like wrestled and were physical with each other but we never did anything like kiss or whatever! but then he got a girlfriend and i was like okay no more flirting but he still KINDA does it not as much though. sometimes if i dont see him im like okay i dont like him, just as a friend! and then right when i see him..even if i just have to like pick him up from somewhere (he is 15) i start thinking...my feelings are coming back. he is so in love with his girlfriend even though they have only been going out for like 2 months now but it was her birthday today and he got her this sweatshirt or whatever..but they were suppose to do something after his homecoming football game ..he is on varsity and he was going to miss the dance afterwards to be with her (they go to different schools) but he called her i guess and she never answered and she never called him to invite him over..and she had other people over too! he was really bummed and all of us could tell i felt REALLY bad =( but then its like..i think he just thinks of me as JUST A FRIEND. and everyone thinks that highschool changed his girlfriend and she is really stuckup and they think she is going to break up with him but i dont know! i wish we could go back to the whole flirting thing, but if she does break up with him he will be so heartbroken and upset..i just dont know what i want! what do you think? im not going to talk to him about this because its just..that his mind isnt going to change and either is his feelings about her. he is so adorable though and treats his girl so good and loves her so much its really cute and i get jealous. its like some of me wants to be over him and wish my feelings would go away and like just think of him as a good friend but then the other part of me wants to be WITH him....
what should i do?
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Well if she does break up with him, your there to help him get through it all you know like be there when he is all sad and everything then he could start to see that your the one who cares about him a lot and if they don't break up then just move on talk to other guys to get your mind off him.
*Victoria*
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