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confused about the most popular guy in school
everyone in their right mind likes this guy in school. and i have really fallen for him. we talk and he asks me how i do at my games and i ask the same to him. im afraid to go any further than this because of a few reasons.
1) he smokes pot but has said that he's trying to quit and he really is
2)he has 2 girlfriends at the moment that just use him for sex
-he seems like the type of person that is a really good guy but he just got mixed up in the wrong crowd. now i might not even have a chance with him if he doesnt like me but my question is if he asks me out should i give him the chance that i think he deserves or not get myself into it. oh yeah did i say HES GORGEOUS but i dont like him just for his looks. he's got an awsome personality. so i dont know what to do, please help, sorry if this was long
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So, I'm probably going to sound harsh.
Ok.
First, any person who is doing drugs and is trying to quit, won't. Either it's peer pressure or it is the lack of will. It would take something significant to push them to the point of abandoning their drug, even if it is a small one.
Second, any boy who uses girls for sex, isn't worth any girls time. And worse yet, it's two girls he is seeing at once. AT ONCE and obviously they don't got two much of a problem with it because it's still happening.
Third. Small chatter does not give the indication and shouldn't give the indication of liking someone else. If anything, it is busy talk or general cliche talk. Most conversations a person will have during the day with someone they meet will be cliche conversation.
Fourth. Any person in their right mind falling for this person? Any person in my right mind would be kicking him to the curb and out the door if they knew what he was doing. Wow...just wow.
Honestly, I don't care what you think this guy is capable of. You say he is just someone mixed up in the crowd. EVERYONE who participates in society (or rather, what your describing) get's mixed up in the crowd by choice. This is his choice to do what he does, I can bet no one is pushing on his back say "do it..."
Personal advice, find a better guy. Especially if he is using two girls for sex. Where does that leave you? The third wheel?
It's my two cents on the situation. You take it as you wish, I only hope I helped a little bit.
-Ryan
P.S. Never apologize for the length of your questions.
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Wow, he sounds perfect! Not really. He is a drug user and is sleeping around with girls he cares nothing for. He actually is blaming the girls for using him for sex or is that your take on the situation? Excuse me, while I laugh...Okay I am composed. Quit making excuses for this guy. Truth is, that if he was not this gorgeous lost boy who only needs a fairy princess (you) to save him, then you would not be giving him a second thought. You want him because he is irresistable as a hot bad boy type. We have all been there! If you want to fall for him and be yet another girl that is "using me for sex" then go ahead. He will probably be adding you to his list while pursuing the next fairy princess. Bad boys do not want to be saved, they just want the appearance of innocent confusion to trap another starry eyed maiden. If you ignore my advice and give him a chance, then at least please keep your pants on for your own sake. I know this is not what you want to hear, but I am obliged to stick to the most likely reality of the situation.
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