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My sister has a date with my ex HUSBAND


Question Posted Wednesday September 13 2006, 9:50 pm

I'm going to try to compile a VERY long story into a short one... I'm a advice giver here but this time.. I need advice. I'm married now but this is my 2nd marriage. Long story short.. I moved into a place before I got married 2nd time and asked my Ex husband to keep my dog for me for a couple months, he ended up giving her away without telling me. I'm trying to handle that situation now but a new one has arrised. I talked to my 17 yr old sister tonight (she still talks to my ex) and I told her I would be contacting my ex about trying to get my dog back and she informed me, she would rather I didnt talk to him and when I asked why she told me she had a date with him Saturday night! I don't know what to do, not that there is anything I could do but I'm so at a loss right now.. Of course I let her have a piece of my mind, but do I have a right to be so mad? He was my husband for 4 years! I'm not even asking myself why he would do this to me, but mostly how could my own flesh and blood do this to me? I talked to my mother about it but she aint going to do nothing because she don't care if they go out. This is a line that you do NOT cross. Am I the only one in my family with morals or what? What do I say to my sister? or more importantly, what would you do in this situation??

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karenR answered Wednesday September 13 2006, 11:02 pm:
Well for one thing you have every right to talk to him any time you want to. I wouldn't let her dictate
that and you should let her know that right up front.

I don't know that I would talk to my sister if she did that to me. That is really low. I also can't believe your mom thinks its okay. You have every right to be mad. I'd be worried about you if you weren't.

You may have an easier time convincing your ex not to date her. Could he be doing it to make you jealous? Since she doesn't want you talking to him
he may still have some feelings for you. If so play dirty and use that. I don't know how but maybe you can convince him to stay away from her.

Good luck. :)

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