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homecoming date!
i really want a date for homecoming. a few of my friends have dates, and although i heard it is better to go with friends, i would love to have a date. everyone is talking about taking pictures and going out for dinner with there dates, and color coordinating what they wear. and i really want that too! there are some guys that i think like me, but im wondering if maybe they are too shy to ask me or something. how can i seem more approachble without seeming desperate for a date! and please dont tell me u dont need a date and its better without one. because i know that but i just want a date lol! please help me..thanks! btw im 14/f
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It is a lot of fun to go with friends, but if you go alone when all your friends have dates you might end up not having anyone to dance with. What I reccomend is to go with a group of friends AND your date.... that way no one feels left out. Since you said you're 14, I'm assuming that you're either a freshman or sophomore. A lot of guys in those grade levals don't feel comfortable asking a girl to a dance even if they really want to go. Keeping that in mind, just ask someone that you think you'd have fun spending the evening with. It's not that big of a deal, really. Even though homecoming is supposed to be the dance where the guys ask the girls, it doesn't always work out that way.
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You can ask them without seeming desperate for a date! Just ask casually if they're going to homecoming and if they might and dont have a date, ask if they might want to go with you since you dont have a date either. It's nothing that scary or embarrassing :) If you 'just want a date', at least ask a friend you're comfortable with or you'd be willing to dance with. If you go with someone you dont really know well or might not be comfortable with, homecoming will definitely not be as great as you'd hope. If you still have weeks before homecoming, dont worry too much. Some guys will probably start asking you right before homecoming week.
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