Ok i was wondering if anybody knows some good ways that i can say surprize this girl i have known for 4 years and some how draw her closer to me. The only things i can think of right off the bat is one just kiss her outta the blues and 2 go buy her flowers or something but i know at the same time thats the same ole thing to so if you have any suggestions let me know.
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? Anq3L_xO answered Tuesday September 12 2006, 11:30 pm: Being a girl myself, I do love surprises, so I automatically give you so much credit for thinking about this girl and wanting to do something nice for her. Since you've known her a long time, you must know the things she enjoys and loves. For a corny example, if she likes chocolate, maybe take her to a place where gourmet chocolate is made and she can have lots of free samples. Do something thoughtful and creative to win her over, because it will mean so much to her and I'm sure she'd really appreciate that you took time and effort to do something special for her. Good luck. -Angel [ Anq3L_xO's advice column | Ask Anq3L_xO A Question ]
angie91 answered Sunday September 10 2006, 2:07 pm: well I'm a girl and we just like to be told . Its really sweet that you want to surprise her, but if you come out and say it then we know that you like us and its not some weird joke or dare or friendship thing. if you want to stick to sentiment, which is really nice, write her a love letter. or give her clues as to who her secret admirer is. or you can buy her a special gift that lets her know that you were listening when she revelaed something important to you. you can call her and tell her or you can tell her she looks nice an give her a bunch of compliments eventually she will start to wonder if you like ehr and then you can come out and say it. you can also leave hints in your compliments like: your hair is really pretty thats why I like ya so much. flowers is cute too but its not something that people who arent even dating yet do very often. I remember a male friend of mine bought his girlfriend of two weeks flowers for v-day and she felt really bad becasue all she did was get him a card and that made her really uncomfortable. girls often opt for something simple and quiet. but you can always make her something to show that you care. I hope you get the girl of your dreams!! good luck!! [ angie91's advice column | Ask angie91 A Question ]
pinkpong answered Saturday September 9 2006, 9:57 pm: write a song all about her and secretly leave her a note with the lyrics on it. later through out the day, whisper a catchy line from it in her ear. i think that would be hella romantic. [ pinkpong's advice column | Ask pinkpong A Question ]
SanataBaby193 answered Friday September 8 2006, 3:08 pm: Ok first of all dont just kiss her outta the blue because she be like freak and secondly giving flowers to a girl they do lyk it but it's old skool to get closer to her you can invite some of your friends and her friends n her to go get a bite to eat and maybe go to the beach or something but get a bunch of people to go with you guys first then after a while start going just you two and you can talk to her and get to know her more n more then one night when you guys go to the movies sit in the back row where it's darker then slowly make your moves and if she diesn't want or let you just back off until she's ready and if she doesn't do anything make your move and kiss her.... [ SanataBaby193's advice column | Ask SanataBaby193 A Question ]
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