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is this a good sign


Question Posted Friday September 8 2006, 12:42 pm

OK well there is this girl i have known for four years now and me and her have been to hell and back as far as problems, people and everything else. Well right now she is going out with someone she met off the internet and well they been arguing alot lately. I been staying over at her house since like last thursday. Well in the weeks time i was over there me and her have had sex 4 times. I with another girl in the pic and 3 of them it was just us. I have wanted to go out with her for so long now and she told me if things dont work out between her and her b/f she pinky swears she will give me my chance. we both love each other and would do anything for each other. I was wondering if since me and her kinda like had sex 4 times if thats a good sign of us maybe hooking up.

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angie91 answered Sunday September 10 2006, 1:59 pm:
I dont know if it is a good sign. I dont think its a good idea to let her cheat on her bf with you because then she if she doesnt end up breaking up with him then you will feel hurt. Stop having sex with ehr until she decides whether or not she wants to break up with him. shes taking advantage of you. be her friend be her supporter but dont sleep with her when she doesnt make a commitment to you. and also be careful not to be the rebound guy. good luck

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adviceforlife answered Friday September 8 2006, 3:45 pm:
Well, what you should consider is that she cheated on him.. she may cheat on you. You've known each other a LONG time and have been friends. Friends do tend to have feelings for one another but the thing is, it ruins your friendship if ever you should break up. I dated one of my good guy friends once.. Haven't talked to him since. Hell, he didn't even talk to me when we were going out, it was so awkward. I hated it and now we have no contact whatsoever and live right down the street from each other. If you truly think your relationship will last, then go ahead and date her but unless your willing to lose a good relationship if it does not work out then don't. The sex thing, pretty interesting. The cards are in your favor if her and her bf are having troubles. Good luck.

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