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I really like my best friend.
My best friend is a guy, and i'm a girl, and I really like him. I've liked him for 3 years on and off, but for the last year or so, i like him more than i've liked anyone ever before. I don't know what to do. If i told him, it would make things akward. Everyone says that he likes me and that we should go out, but i don't know what to do! Please help, thanks.
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If you like him a lot, you should try to tell him how you feel about him. You could invite a bunch of people for a movie or something and then sit next to him, talk to him, and tell him how you feel. Theres always a possibilty that it could be awkward. You have to ask yourself if you want to take a chance or not. If you dont tell him how you feel, then you'll never know how he feels.
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You have to choose . . . best friend or boyfriend??? Do you really think that going out with him is going to last all that long? What's going to happen when you both break up? Are you still going to be friends. Think about them and then get back to me.
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ok, so hes your best friend? well friends first is pretty much the best relationship that you can possably get! just talk to him one day and say somthin like that how people are telling you that he likes you and stuff and if he says that he doesnt then just be thankful that you guys are friends...but if your lucky he might even admit that its true! dont even listen to what people tell you becuase it may not be true and they could just be saying that to make you happy! they might of even took it the wrong way! so just if he says no then just move on and stay friends!
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How do you even know that it will be akward??? If he's your best friend, set him aside and tell him that your friendship is so important to you and you want to tell him something, so he shouldn't freak out when he hears this. Now, just tell him you like him. If it was akward, he would obviously say no. Do a pro and con situation on how much you like him....what do you really like about him? What do you have against him? higher one wins! Talk to him about this and see what he has to say. If he says no, just ask if you can still be friends with him. Dont forget to tell him that your friendship is so much more important than a serious relationship.
I hope I helped!
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