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I screwed up, big time.
Female, 14.
My bf4l, Kaitlenn was a lesbian for quite sometime, she told me to tell everyone, cause she wanted everyone to know. Then all the sudden she decided she was straight again and she got into beer and stuff and had sex with some pothead that she knows from another school. Well, I told people, cause it sounded to me like a scheme to prove she was straight again. Now shes mucho pissed at me and is "plotting revenge" How do I make sure I don't go down, and get her to realize I'm truly sorry.
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It sounds to me like you've been placed in a confusing position. First your friend wants you to take the responsibility for telling people about her sexuality, and then she gets angry when do.
The best policy is probably to never share friend's sexual exploits with other people - whether they are gay OR straight.
You should also apologize to your friend, and say that in order to avoid things like this in the future, you want to empower her to tell people about herself.
This is a polite way of saying, 'I'm not telling people you are gay/straight/whatever. Why should I? It's your life.'
Best of luck.
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No offense, but I hate every single 14 year old on this planet.
They all want to be different, and they want to "find themselves" so they turn emo, or lesbian or bi just to get attention and then they think "oh I dont like this anymore I'll just change back"
Chances are she wasnt really lesbian, she was just trying to find out who she really is, and she wanted attention.
If she wants to turn into a slut and have sex with whoever she wants, then so be it.
And when she says shes going to plot revenge, she probably just wants to sound scary and intimidating..Dont worry about it.
Just try and talk to her and apologize, if she wants to be a whiny bitch about it, then let her.
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