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how do I ask this girl out
I work with this girl Kelly. She is really pretty and I want to ask her out. I just met her today. What should I do? Should I ask her out? Should I get her number first? Is there an option number 3? I have no idea how it works. I don't even know if its appropriate to ask her out yet. I have no clue what I'm doing. Please help me!!!!! I'd like your advice but also post succeses that you have had, and girls post how you would like a guy to approach this situation.
16/m
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well you could maybe just ask her to go to the movies liek hanging out and if that goes well after a few times maybe ask her out.
but make sure to bring some of your guys friends so shes not uncomfortalbe.
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Since you only met her today, I suggest asking her to hang out - that way you can get to know her a little better. Give it sometime & if she turns out to be someone you like, then ask her out. You have a better chance of her saying yes if you know eachother well enough & let some attraction grow. I, personally, don't think you should jump into a relationship without developing a friendship with that person first. I've noticed the relationship is stronger & lasts longer that way. That's my opinion, anyway.
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Personally I think you should get to know Kelly before asking a her for her number & asking her out expecially. Maybe you could ask her for a screen name if you guys both have one. Because its easier sometimes to talk online then on the phone. Because the phone can be quite boring at times expecially if you dont know the person well enough to keep a conversation going. So ask her for her screen name after like a week so your not moving to fast. Because personally I dont like it when it goes to fast because sometimes guys just wanna get in a girls pants (not that im saying you just wanna get in her pants). So get to know her before you doing any asking out. A girl would rather have a guy get to know her & listen to her. Listening & being there for her if she ever needs to talk is one of the best ways to win a girls heart. Also if you wanna give her hints into saying you like her compliment her. Tell her shes pretty. Tell her you love her eyes smile etc. Hope I helped <3
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yea, dude if that was me i'd be uncomforatable. but im sure if you give it some time, and it doesnt have to be alot, you could ask her out, i mean do you even know if she has a gf. thats a definate thing you have to find out.
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i wouldnt really feel compfertable with a guy that i just met asking me out i think that you should get to know her better and then when you feel like you think that she likes you THEN ask her out.
I hope i helped!!!!
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Well, if I was her, I'd probably be a little uncomfortable if a guy I just met that day was already asking me out, and I didn't even know him all too well yet.
So I suggest just talking to her first and getting to know her better. Ask her her interests, what kind of music does she listen to, etc. And just show her you want to get to know HER and what she's like.
And then after awhile and you know eachother pretty well, then ask if you can get her number so you guys can talk more and possibly hang out sometime. And then call her and ask her if she'd want to possibly go to the movies sometime and ask her what she'd like to see, so she feels like she can pick whatever and she doesn't have to go see something you might want to see, but she doesn't.
And if you want to be real gentelman like, you can pay for her food, but if she offers to pay for her own, don't be persistant on it. She just might be very independent. She'll appreciate the nice gesture though.
And then the next time at work, you already have something to joke around about and talk about: the movie. Talk about the funny scenes or scary scenes, etc. And go and hang out with her a few more times and just have fun.
And then one night just be like,"____, I really like you, and I don't know how you feel about me, but I was just wondering if you'd like to be my girlfriend." And hopefully, she'll say yes! But if she were to say no, just be like,"Oh okay, that's cool. Well, we can still be friends, can't we?" Because it's better to be friends, then nothing at all, don't you think? I hope I helped. <3
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I'm a girl so this is how I'd like a guy to approach the situation. Before you ask her out I think you should get to know her more. Talk to her, become friends with her. When you're close enough to her (which you might already be) I would be looking for signs to see if she likes you. If she looks at you a lot or touches you or any kind of sign that she looks interested could help you. The next step would be to give her your number. I would say "Hey Kelly, do you want my number?" and if she says yes then write it down and ask for hers and say "Do you mind if I call you like Saturday night" and if she says yes then when you call her you should ask her out. Or if you want to ask her out in person you should tell her to meet you at the movies or whatever and ask her out there. I think that would be really sweet and if she likes you enough she will take the offer!
Good luck.
If you ever need more advice leave it to my inbox. I'd be happy to help.
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