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granny snoops around in my room and questions about my weigh
Hey my name is Rachel and iam a 17 year old girl and whenever I go over to my granny's on the weekends she goes throgh my overnight bags and goes through my dresser drawers and takes out whatever she thinks isn't mine for some reason she thinks other people put stuff in my dresser when they don't she takes stuff out that she dosn't think is mine and that is actually mine and when I go looking for it I end up having to go ask my granny where it is and she dosn't even say sorry and sometimes she says rachel havn't you gained a little weight in the past 2 weeks every time I go over which is every to weeks and iam only 5 foot and weigh 149 lbs I know iam a little chubby,but it really hurts my feelings what should I do?
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Sometimes older people have a harder time understanding things. They were raised differently than us. Sometimes they dont know when to shut up. My grandma for example once said to my dad, "Dont look now, but the guy behind us is FAAT"
Times change, but they dont change with the times. I wouldn't sit her down and talk to her to be honest with you. If she says your fat, I would just say "yep, mom sure does cook a good meal." Or "yeah I know, being fat is in now a days"
As for the snooping thing. She probably just wants to help. If this really bothers you, you could just tell her that you are fine with unpacking your things by yourself, and you dont need any help.
Good luck
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you really need to talk to her you need to sit her down and tell her that it hurts your feelings when she asks you about your weight
and tell her how you feel about her going through your things and takeing them
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Well it bugs you right? Talk it out with her and tell her why its bugging you why she goes through your things. If things don't get better, talk to your parents or other relative about it. Hope I helped!
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