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best friends are becoming a burdon
ive felt kind of lost lately. I love my friends to death, but i dont know, its like every single day we seem to have less and less in common. ive got alot of different groups of friends and my main one ive just seem to be falling out of. 3 of my best friends are in there and i just dont really like hanging with them anymore. they dont do anything wrong we just dont have anything in common anymore and i feel really bad about it because theres like nothing i can do. lately ive been more friends with everyone im in choir with and theyre like my best friends, but i dont want to leave everyone behind. i know they say people change over time but i dont want to change. i feel like if i stay with the friends i have ill be suffocating. like this is gonna sound really lame but u know that part in titanic in the beginning when rose is talking about how shes supposed to fit in with the rich people but she secretly hates it so much and she feels like shes dying inside, thats what i feel like! i just dont know what to do, any help would be fantastic, thanks so much.
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its completely normal to feel like that i used to be best friends with some1 and now whenever i meet her in town, her whole personality is different.all i can say is you'll find new people that interest you. your friends aren't telling you not to go and hang with some1 else.it doesn't mean you can't be friends with them, just that the relationship you have with them, and the bond isn't as strong as it used to be.
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Well if you and your so called "best friends" dont have anything in commen, I think you're hanging out with the wrong group. If its the Choir people that you have more in commen with, just be Best Friends with the choir group. If you really really dont want to lose your best friends in that group, talk to them and say "whats going on?" talk to them and say " I really need to know why arn't we becoming friends anymore. I dont understand why we are becoming different groups now." If they wont listen to you, write them a note, email them. If they STILL won't listen to you, I would just say forget them!!! They are different people than you and you dont want to hang around them. People change, yes that's true, but you change too. Its okay to change best friends, as long as you both are okay with that, its fine.
I hope I helped!
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