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Friend or Crush?


Question Posted Saturday August 26 2006, 5:07 pm

There is this one certain person that gets me really REALLY confused. Everyone says that we should go out and that he keeps on flirting with me...

Anywhos I like him because he's fun and rebelious and just awesome. He's fun to talk and hang with and I get along with him just absolutely fine.

In classes I would catch him staring at me and he would always want to partner up with me (but that may be because I'm smart and he's not too smart..=X) He would always poke me to try and make me laugh and tell jokes and such.

I know that this may be just his personality but idk. I'm hoping he likes me..because I like him. I know that there are about a bazillion questions like this on here but none of them helps.

From what you've seen above, you'd say he likes me but read this part: He usually hugs his [girl] friends and hangs out with one of the girl all the time (like go to movies with patrick and her and skate with her) and he wouldn't answer Katey when she asked if he liked me in front of me

It's sort of my habit to say "ew" when people ask or say "You should go out with/ Do you like (Name of a boy)" so whenever Katey or Jo (girl) says that I kept on saying ew in front of the boy although I like him.


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MelLeDisko answered Saturday August 26 2006, 10:22 pm:
Well, if he's acting sweet and nice to you, I'd say he probably likes you. Or he could just be a really flirtatious guy. I would try having a friend ask him again, and see what he says. But don't have them ask in front of you again, because of course if he DOES, he's not going to say it in front of you. Or the next time you guys talk or are partnered up, you should ask him to hang out with you guys sometime. And this girl you are talking about, she could just be a really good friend of his that he hangs out with and hugs. My guy best friends and me do that all the time. So try asking him to hang out sometime and flirt a little black, and also don't say "ew" whenever he's near you because if he hears he'll think you don't like him. I hope I helped. <3

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Cux answered Saturday August 26 2006, 9:55 pm:
Hey-

Well- how a guy acts around you is how he really feels (trust me- I am one).. so if he's acting really sweet and nice to you when he's with you- then I'd say he likes you.. I mean.. even when i wasn't going out with my girlfriend i have now (like when I liked her a couple months before).. I still had friends that were girls and they hugged me and stuff.. but that didn't mean I liked them.. I was so focused on liking my Lauren (who is my girlfriend now.. sorry if this is getting confusing)
So- he most likely likes you.. and you should ask him (in private) if he likes you.. then if he says yes.. tell him that you like him too.. and he will probably ask you out

Hope I hepled!
--Jack

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lonelyandlost2 answered Saturday August 26 2006, 9:52 pm:
there is the exact same boy at my school and two months ago i was in the same predictament as you. truth is guys wont say they like you especially to your face if they arent sure they will get the same response from you. let him know a bit you like him dont flirt excessively just be friends. guys are just as confused and nervous as girls and often think and debate about the same things. your friend may be hard headed and not realize your hints when you give them to him so you should make the first move. ask him and some of his friends and yours out. as an outing not a group date dont pair up or anything thats way too intimidating for most guys. then if he hangs out with you that night ask him out what do you have to lose. live today and dont look back.

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