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Cheating?!?!


Question Posted Wednesday August 23 2006, 7:00 pm

Okay so I have this friend, Bianca. Her and her boyfriend Joe are taking a break as of yesterday. They are honestly like the closest couple you would EVER meet. But anyways, Joe knows a girl named Olivia. She is in a Band with him. I guess Joe started liking Olivia, and thats when they took the break. So Olivia and I are REALLY close friends. [ I am also friends with Bianca...and Joe] anyways, Oliva spent the night at my house last night and told me everything. So today I guess Joe asked Olivia on a date and this very moment they are downtown on a date. I just invited Bianca to spend the night. I also have a friend named Alyssa and she is spending the ngiht too. Bianca Alyssa and I are pretty good friends. I already told Alyssa about Joe and Olivia but idk if I should tell Bianca..shes on her way here NOW. We told her we had news to tell her and thats why shes coming over. I started having second thoughts...SHOULD I TELL HER? idk wut to do!!!

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MelLeDisko answered Friday August 25 2006, 10:03 pm:
I would tell her because she deserves to know, and just put yourself in her shoes, wouldn't you want to know also? Plus, if she ever does find out from someone else and finds out that you knew, she'll probably get pretty mad that you didn't tell her. And it's probably better for her to find out know from her good friend then seeing them together or something in school. Just explain it to her in a really calm tone. Just be like,"Well, you know that girl Olivia? Well, I guess Joe has started to like her, and he asked her out on a date, and she said she'd go on it, and I just wanted to let you know before you heard it from anybody else." And if she gets upset, just be there for her and hug her and everything. And then just try and cheer her up the best you can. I hope I helped. <3

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yoliv answered Thursday August 24 2006, 12:52 pm:
you need to tell her.
tell her not to get mad at Olivia (i am also named olivia:)he he) because it isnt her fault (unless she said yes to the date and is now going out with joe that would be bad) and make sure that she knows (Olivia) it isnt her fault (unless she said yes) Bianca needs to know Joe is cheating on her because if she doesnt then it could ruin yours and Olivia's and maybe Alyssa's friendship with Bianca. SSOOOOOOO please tell Bianca before anyones feelings are hurt.
Hope i helped
-YOLIV

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Exquisitechick answered Thursday August 24 2006, 1:07 am:
Well, shes youre friend so if i was you i would tell her. Its not like he told you not to say anything. Just tell her and be honest about it, because in the long run she will get mad at you for knowing and not telling her. [its happened from experience]

Good luck

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