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Broke up with again.
So I dated this guy for a week and 2 days and we spent every day together. we broke up a week ago tomorrow and I can't get over it. I want him to want me back. He said he wanted to whore around and then he goes and dates a Freshman and I'm a senior. It's killing me and I don't know what to do. I don't want to go to school and see him with someone else. All I've did is cried.
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well why dont you try going out with some one one elsh to make him jealous p.s. its your dession
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I know that you think a lot of this boy and you have strong feelings for him, but do you honestly think he feels the same way? (I'm not trying to be mean or harsh here, I'm just trying to help you out.) It seems like he doesn't like you as much as you like him. If he did, he wouldn't be doing these things to you. He wouldn't be breaking up with you and he wouldn't be going for other girls.
I'm sure you're an amazing girl, so you should have an amazing guy by your side. You may think that you really like this guy, but since he does these things to you, this isn't true. You need a guy that will stick by and can be your bestfriend as well as your boyfriend. A guy that will treat you like a princess and will never hurt you or make you cry. A guy that will stay with you longer then 2 weeks. And a guy that won't dump you to go whore around with other girls. You're still young, so you shouldn't be tied down to a guy. Your perfect guy is still out there, you just have to play the field a bit and look for him. Just think of it this way, you're that much closer to finding the perfect guy for you. ♥
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Agh, I'm sorry. That sucks.
But the most you really CAN do is just try not to look at them if you see them together and just try and focus your mind on other things and get your mind off him. [ whenever i want to, i do my homework, read a book, play video games, listen to music, etc. ] But, I think it's a sort of good think you guys broke up because if he just wants to "whore around" and everything, then chances are if you two were dating he'd probably cheat on you, which would probably devastate you more, and also if he just wants to get stuff from girls, then he'd probably expect you to do stuff too, and who needs a man-whore? Just give yourself a good few cries, focus your attentions elsewhere, and hopefully, you'll slowly start to forget about him. I hope I helped. <3
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Oh dear.
I know this is going to be incredibly hard,
but from what you wrote it sounds like he really wants just to do "stuff" and get "stuff" you know? The fact that he wants to fool around, dont let him get to you. You are so much better then him, the freshman is going to regret it, and he is too. You will find someone better, and I know it hurts a lot now, but it gets better I promise.
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