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highschool reunion
I just came back from my ten year highschool reunion. Everyone was really nice and I had a suprisingly good time. I was really unpopular in highschool back then. Well everyone was nice except for this one guy. He was the most popular guy in the class back then and had a huge ego. He also knew I had a crush on him and was pretty mean back then. Well he showed up with his arm around his new wife and the whole time ignored me and never said hi or apologized to me (I didnt think he would). The strange thing though was although he never talked to me and was showing off his wife the whole night; I kept catching him staring at me when no one else was talking to him. Do you think he still remembers what a jerk he was? Although I was really dressed up and looked hot so he may have been checking me out.
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Well, you didn't really say what he did to you back then, but maybe in his mind he feels he has nothing to apologize for. People like this are often narcissists and only concerned about themselves. If it appeared he was showing off his wife, you are probably right. That was only to make himself look better. Sure if you are "hot" now, he probably was checking you out, he probably does remember that you had a crush on him. He obviously thinks he's "all that" and was enjoying every minute of the subtle attention you were paying to him. Just be glad you didn't get hooked up with this guy. Karma--you know, he will get what's coming to him someday!
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Either he was checking you out or remembers you, but who cares! More importantly why do you? He was a jerk and probably still is. If he was a jerk to you he was probably a jerk in general and does not remember or care in great detail how he treated others. It may be tempting to find some satisfaction in him checking you out, but that is only if you are still seeking his approval. He does not deserve another thought from you. There are plenty of nice guys who were probably noticing you, too. Did you see them?
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Chances are, he sees that you are gorgeous and successful now and completely regrets it- he probably also didn't recognize you for a while. Congrats for realizing what an idiot he is and that it doesn't matter anymore; he obviously hasn't moved on and that's, quite honestly, a little sad.
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He probably still has his ego, especially since he was showing off his wife. Guys like that are annoying. People should be over themselves 10 years after high school. I think he does remember you and what happened in high school. If he didn't then he would have at least said something to you. He was most likely thinking *damn, I should have been nicer to that girl*. I wouldn't give him any mind or even think about him though. He knows you look good now but sounds like he's still too full of himself to apologize for something he did as a kid.
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