ok so me and my boyfriend have been together for a while now. but there have been people telling me he cheated on me with his ex-girlfriend. and i do know that his ex-girlfriend still really likes him. what do you think i should do?
Cux answered Saturday July 25 2009, 1:12 pm: If you talk to him and find out what's going on, then you can better judge if he's been cheating on you or not.
Of course, he might lie, but if you've been with him for awhile, you should be able to tell if he's lying.
christina answered Saturday July 25 2009, 4:40 am: Have you asked him about it? I think you should. You can't just go by what people tell you because there are always going to be rumors.
Talk to your boyfriend. Ask him if he cheated on you, if he denies it, I'd get into contact with his ex and ask her. Though because she does like him, she'll probably say yes, but maybe she'll have enough decency to tell you the truth.
If he did cheat on you, obviously break up with him. To stay with someone that's cheated on you is stupid & you can do much better.
Don't automatically assume everything you hear is true though because if you go off and dump your boyfriend without getting the truth first, you could really feel stupid in the end when you see people were wrong. [ christina's advice column | Ask christina A Question ]
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