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my mom gnored your practically perfect advice!
I told my mom what you said about me and my sister fighting. She said that it was an ok idea and we (her and me not my sister)could talk but that the fighting was mostly my fault! I told her that I tried to ignore her (my sister) and she said that I start it (when i don't my sister always slaps/hits/puches/calls names/is a meanie (:D) and then i try to stop her and i loose my cool and hit her back, and I get in the trouble and all she gets in is a 'stop' when i get a 'dont do that again. You are older then her. Don't let her get to you' And my older sister keeps us going. How to i get them to listen without getting in trouble????
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Okay, apparently your mom isn't looking at this from both views. It is true that younger siblings get away with almost everything and the older one's get all the blame.
So you have a younger sister and an older sister and you're in the middle, right?
I would set up a video camera and bring it around with you everywhere but that's a hassel...
Your sister seems to have a lot of rage inside and I personally don't know why or what's causing it to build up.
Since ignoring her doesn't work, try and block her punches. Dodge them if you can and get a hold of her arms.
Sit her down and firmly say to her in a calm tone that if she keeps on acting like that she'll have to face consequences later on in life and she needs to fix those behaviors before she gets someone seriously injured. And go to your room/or send her out of your room and lock the door.
And tell your mom (if you want) that if she doesn't start to give your sister consequences for her actions, you're gonna go to the school counselor for help. And that she's going to have to stop treating your sister like a princess because she's old enough to know what she did wrong. Tell her to stop believing that you are the one who starts it when your sister is and if she can't believe that, then...well I got nothing for this.
But tell that to your mom if you want calmly and nicely and try and not get her mad. Just keep your cool and show her that you're the mature one who doesn't start these violent quarrels.
And thanks for the compliment and you're welcome. I'm always here to give anyone advice about almost everything =]
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