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he came home 10 hrs later and said he was moving out in two
my bf whos 38 and his son (14)have lived with me (37)for 9 months he just this month got a job
has not offered any financial help at all .
then yesterday he came home from work and said he was taking his two dogs to the desert. 10 hrs later at 1am he came back told me he was working on a new place to live and he had to bring dogs over to meet some one. then he says hell be moving in two weeks (by the way he looked like he just woke up) should i throw him out now or try to make things better weve been rocking this relationship for 7 yrs of witch he has only worked 3 of those years.so im the one always paying for everything i do love him but i feel he is using me and now that i made him get a job hes gone. so my question is should i wait the two weeks or get it on now
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Sound to me like not only is he using you but he might have someone on the side. And on top of all that, he doesn't seem to want to be with you anymore. You should let him leave and be glad of it. I know it's hard when a relationship has lastest that long but from what you said, you sound like you'd be much better off.
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Talk to him first and see what his reason are etc.
If he seems adamant about leaving I wouldn't give him the 2 weeks. Let the one who had to meet the dogs put him up and boot him out before he loses his job and can't leave.
There is absolutely no reason you should keep house for him for 2 more weeks. It will tear you up inside. May as well have it done and start putting it behind you.
Good Luck.
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Confront him and ask if he's seeing someone else. Get that cleared out of the way.
Then tell him what's on your mind. Tell him that you feel used and that you're like his ATM machine.
Say you want a fair relationship which doesnt include you paying foreverything
If things don't change after that, I don't know what to say but to look for someone else.
If you can't seem to get the relationship stable, I don't see the point in marrying him because it could turn out to be a divorce at the end
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