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i dont know if my parents trust me
So i want to go to the movies on friday with my best friend and a guy friend. i asked my mom and she said to ask my dad and my dad says no because he doesnt want me going with guys. but the problem is, i really, really want to go because my crush might be there. and i really want to spend time with him before schol starts. what do i do to make my parents maybe think it over? thanks =)
13/f
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My dad is the same way. Try going to the movies in bigger groups at first. Most likely your dad will feel more comfortable knowing that they're are a lot of people "watching" you. Don't try anything like making out your first time. If your dad sees you didn't do anythign wrong this time then he will get more and more comfortable with you going. Whatever you do, don't lie. Tell your dad that you're 13 and you really want to hang out like everyone else and stuff. Talk to him.
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~Morgan
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well 13 is usually the age where you start to get more priviledges and you get to hang out. maybe tlak it over with your dad more.. maybe you guys can make up a system tell him where your going who is picking you up form the hosue who is driving you home and what time you'll be home. maybe even introduce him to some of your friends, make him feel comfortable so he isn't worrying all night about where you'll be. let him know your responsible and that you'll do the right thing. good luck!
-Bess
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lol, first off.. what parents do trust there kids?
well mine do, now. because this is what i did, when there was a big party, my mom didnt want me making out with anyone.. so im like
"mom please can i go, i promise its not like im going to do anything, & if i do, then you can not let me ever go out with boys, until im like 16 & like you can ground me.. please just trust me, & let me go"
so my mom said yes, now inless.. you plain on like making out with this guy or something, then that isnt goin to work.. inless u dont let anyone find out.
you could also say,
"why cant you just trust me?"
& see what they say.
i hope everything works out =)
kbye
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I would not lie, only because if you are right and your parents don't trust you they could "spy" on you at the movies, also parents are not dumb even if you say no guys will be there now they are not going to buy that. Also if you lie and get caught they will def. not trust you.
I would talk to your mom, tell her that you are going with friends - yes a guy will be there but you are not dating him, do NOT mention that your crush will be there (thats not lying because you don't know for sure) ask her to talk to your dad because you don't understand why you are not allowed to be friends with guys. This will make her think and she will probably talk to your dad.
If the answer is still no then I would make arrangements to go to the movies another time (maybe the next day) and go with girlfriends so your parents have no excuse to say no.
Hope this helped
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Well, parents can be jerks. My mom is the same way. The way to get around your parents is to lie. It's that simple. And hey, it's even easier to not feel bad about it.
This is what you do. You pretend that you're making new plans for Friday. The plans need to be something all-girls. Tell your parents that you want to go to the movies with some of your female friends on Friday. They should say okay. When you get dropped off/picked up, make sure that at least one girl is with you. That way, your parents will see that you're with a girl and they will back off and leave. Then just meet up with the guys in the movie theater and enjoy the movie.
It isn't rocket science. Oh, and your parents don't trust you, but that's completely normal, especially since you're a girl.
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they just want to make shure your safe
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