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how bad does it hurt first time
Is it supposed to kill?
hes not getting past the hymen because it just kills. And the hymen itself kills.
I tried getting a tampon in ...even that hurts in the same way
Is there a physical problem...i mean this is too painful for it to feel normal
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It's not supposed to kill you literally, but I guess you are aware of this, but it does hurt pretty bad. If you are going to have sex, then he will most likely rip your hymen. It's just normal. If it hurt to get a tampon in, you weren't doing it right. Read the directions and make sure you are inserting it in the correct way. It is possible that you have a physical problem, I forgot what it was called, but it's possible. Sex is very painful, but it gets better in time. Here's the deal, make sure you are horny & very wet. If you can't get wet, try lubrication. KY Jelly kicks ass. Use it even if you are wet. Make sure he fingers you before you ahve sex and make sure you are loosened up quite a bit before penetration. Try masturbating, this will make you less tight, and it will make it hurt less.
good luck, and i'm sorry you have to go through this.
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GOOOO SEE A DOCTOR GIRL HEHEHEHEHe
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There could be a problem. Some women have extremely thick/strong hymens and need a doctor to break it for them. I would suggest that you go see your dr. and talk with her/him about it.
It's not supposed to hurt that much, and it only hurts for a second. As for tampons that should not hurt it may be uncomfortable but not painful.
Feel free to ask any other questions you have.
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Ok hun, my name is Haven.
Of course it hurts the first time. I'm pretty sure that this is NOT a physical problem because everyeone is....tight...i guess i would say. Imean you jus i dont no, keep trying and i promise nothing is wrong with you. Jus take stuff easy ok.
love always,
..:havco:..
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My sister has the same problem with the tampon issue she can't get it passed the hymen and we she try hard she says she cried it hurt so much. My mom is going take her to a gyno. There might be a slight problem but I don't think its to serous, remember your not the only one.
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i dont think you have an actual problem..
you just might be doin it wrong
theres two holes
you wanna get them into the second one ((in the back))
and you can't go straight up...go at a 42 degree angle
and with tampons put the appilicator in until your fingers touch your area and then push the back up into the applicator and pull the appilicator out you shouldn't feel a thing after that
anymore questions feel free to ask me
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You might have a problem because i know it's not supposed to hurt that bad...you might need to go to a gyno. just to make sure nothings wrong if it keeps hurting like that.
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