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parents unfair
hi guys i have this big problem. first off, i am almost 15 & my parents are in their 50s they are very old fashioned. they only let me hang out w/ girls im only allowed to talk to boys in school or on the phone in the daytime. they always see hanging out with boys as a "date" & never let me hang out w/ my friends that are boys just because they are boys. i think this is unfair ive tried everything possible to convince them otherwise please help me pleassse
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when your telling your parents about convos and stuff tht you and a certain guy had, say stuff tht shows u don't like him. For example, something like "He tripped today, haha, he's such a dork". It worked with my parents. If he's younger than you (as in a grade younger), you can say something like "Yep, he's another 7th grade dork." Then tell your parents on how 7th graders are immature and stuff. Don't actually flat out say "I think it is unfair that I can't hang out with guys" and so on. You need to use psycology on them. Let me know if you need any more tips.
Ex's and Oh's,
-brittany
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Well you cant teach old dogs(people) new somethings. That only thing you can do is be creativy as possable, think of false hobbies, im going to jog? for a small one, you just have to use your mind and put them in under false ideas, And if you say your joging, think if the got "friends" like jog pass them, alwasy remember, if your not paranoid your not safe, know whats happening all the time and read there thought, not like (read there mind) but think of what they could be thinking. but never used one anwser. If you want to know more aboot this hit me up.
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Hey,
I know that this sounds hard for you not to be allowed to hang out with guys. but unfortunately there is nothing that you can do about it.
And my parents are exactly the same as yours,they are very old fashioned, and have that concept , that guys can only be colleagues, but they can;t be friends or best friends or people to hang out with. and my parents are even more strict than yours, because i can't even talk to guys online or on the phone. So at least you have something that other people don't have.
So in this situation, there is nothing that i would say that could help you, but my only suggestion, is for you to hang out with guys and have all the fun you can have with them in school,or that when you go out with a group of friends as girls, maybe a couple of guys could come too, and you don't have to tell your parents, and if they know, you could just tell them that you met them there. Therefore, you could hang out with both guys and girls. this is the only solution, but in the same time, don't go and tell your parents that you are going out with a girl when you are going out with a boy instead, don't do that, because if they find out, you won't have an excuse then.
So try to consider what i said, and if you need any other help or advice then please be free to contact me.
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