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no friends
i feel like i have no friends :[ like i know i have one good friend, but i feel like that isn't enough. during the school year i felt like i had lots of friends. but now that its summer i feel like i have none. nobody ever calls me to hangout. so i end up hanging out with the same two people all the time. but like my one friend isn't friends with my other friend so we can't hang out together. but i also feel like my one friend is using me. like we could hang out like 3 times a week, and she still won't put me on her myspace top 12 (i know that sounds stupid but she puts people that she doesn't even like on their instead of me). what do i do? i have 1 other good friend but she ditched me to become more popular. then my other two friends never call me. i know your probably saying call them, but like i'll IM them saying we should hang out and they just go yeah i'll call you. and then they never do.
help! i get so depressed sometimes.
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Hey! This happens to a lot of kids. I remember when I moved halfway through the school year and that summer I did nothing because no one wanted to hang out with me. I had so many friends at school, but once summer came, no one talked anymore. If your friend is using you, tell her you feel that way. You can't bottle it up inside you, you need to speak. Tell her what you're thinking, it will help a lot. Ask your parents if you can have a summer party and invite a lot of people. Call up some kids and ask if they all wanna meet up at the local mall or park or something. Bring a camera with you so whenever someone has a birthday you can put a picture of a memory on there, that will score you some points. For the people that say they will call and they don't, just set up a time and a date online, it's easier. Don't get down about this because it happens to many kids. Keep talking to everyone, ask if they wanna take day trips to the zoo or amusement park or something fun. Believe me, it will help.
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I have been throught this many times,
During the school year I feel like I had soo many friends, and now nobody does anything with me. Sometimes its just because its summer and people are on vacation or if not that, they could be busy with something else. I always call my friends if I want to do something with them. I think you should convince your friends to hang out with you by calling them, if they still dont want to hang out with you, maybe you need to find new friends.
I hope I helped!
-volleyball2150
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