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i dont know what to do...!?
okay well the other day my best friend whitney was talking to my other best friend jael on the fone...im closser to whitney but like them both. and jael told whitney that one of my friends was talking about me behind my back saying i was annyoing and stuff. of course being a good friend whitney told me..i wanted to know who it was so i confronted jael...we got into this huge argument cuz she woiuldnt tell me who was talking about me. i told her that it was bad that the person was talkin about me but it was worse knowing that she was letting it happen. she told me that shes just keeping her word to the other person but its really bothering me....please help!
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Sorry it took me a while to answer your question. Anyways, it seems like she is just trying to be a good friend by not getting in the middle of the situation. She promised the other person she wouldn't say anything, so she is keeping her word. I know it's wrong, but you shouldn't make her tell you. Try not to worry about that. It's useless drama that you don't need to get involved with. Who cares if someone is talkig about you. They're not even worth it. I know it's bothering you and all, but you have to learn to get over stupid things like that.
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If somethings hurting you she should definetly spill. Ask her if keeping her promise to the girl is worth making you suffer. It's one thing to know that someone is talking about one of your friends behind their backs and another when you know who it is and won't tell them. That's just mean and RUDE. I definetly would try to keep getting it out of her. If she's a good, true friend she should tell you. Well, if you have any more questions visit my column!
♥ Marissa xox
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