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Messy social life
I'm 13 from Singapore, and this year i have entered secondary school, which is something like high school in USA.
First of all, there's this guy who i accidentally offended. He started to hate me a lot and made fun of me. Like, during Workshop lessons he would say " I'm surprised you haven't cut your finger yet" and during many other lessons he would just be acting cool in front of his friends. Soon, because of this, everyone in the class avoided me. I am not the only one who suffers under him though. He also bullies his best friend.
Secondly, I have a very unlucky crush on this Japanese guy who happens to be his bestest friend. He teases me rudely many times as well but i can't help liking him. I was hoping it was only infatuation, but it has been almost 8 months.
Lastly, I hope to solve this problem soon because I have no one to talk to except chatting online with my primary school friends. As a result, I don't look forward to school and paying attention in class is difficult.
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hi there =] first off i need to know what you did to offend him? he does not have any right to treat you like that and since you said that you accidently offended him i suggest you try and rectify this problem. as in try and work out and sort out how badly you've offended him and see if you can apologise for accidently offending him. however if that does not work and he still bullies you, speak to an adult you trust (eg: family, teachers etc) talk to a teacher or councellor at your school and see if they can get this guy to stop being a bully. since you said you're 13 i'm assuming that this guy is also 13? am i correct? but usually guys around that age are very brash and act like total idots, this may be just that he's growing up but from what you've said i have a feeling he knows what he's doing and is doing this on purpose. talk to someone who can do something about this suituation like teachers you can trust. bullying should not be taken lightly and i do hope you seek help and surport from people you trust. hope that helps! =]
P.s: i'm from singapore too =] but i currently live in australia.
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