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Friends are mad at me
I'm a thirteen year old female.
Well I have a very bad problem with a friend. She thinks I am a backstabber because she thought I got mad at her for taking her old boyfriend, but I said I didn't. And she thinks im an annoying person because she said "Your like a mosquito that won't go away." I've tried talking to her, but nothing helped me. I tried telling her I won't be annoying anymore, but she didn't believe me. We have been friends since Kindergarten and then this happened....HELLLLP..please!!
-Depressed Anonymous-
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Just give her space and room and she'll be fine.
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Hi,
with this friend of yours, she must still have feelings for your guy now. and that is why she is mad. so if she is telling you that you are annoying and like a mosquito then here is what i say. i would give it one last try to talk to her. tell her that you want to be friends and you don't want a guy to come in between your friendship, and that it's just not worth loosing a friendship over. ask her what she really feels, and tell her not to lie. maybe you can work out something where you can have you kindergarten friendship and your man. if the talking does not work, the friendship wasn't the greatest. just give her time, she should come around and if she don't then just move on, you tried your best to keep the friendship and if she is going to be a noncaring friend that does not care about how you feel, or what you want then there are lots of other people that would be your friend, and who will understand. so talk, and just give her time. good luck. :)
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Dear,depressed ah how fate led us to meet...i too have had friends like this...well lets look at the siduation..so she mad because she thinks you got mad at her for taking her old boyfriend well first of all if it was her old boy friend she shouldn't get upset cuz her and that guy are over...secondly if she thinks your annoying explain to her that all people are diffrent and that if she's really your friend that friends don't let other friends treat them as if they were nothing. Last but not least Tell her how much your friendship means to her hopefully things will brighten up,i'm wishing you luck.Your friend, Violet
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By telling her that you won't be annoying anymore is actually annoying her. Do you really want to be friends with someone like that? She seems pretty sure that she doesn't want to talk to you right now so don't suck up to her. She's mad for a stupid reason and it's really pathetic. You don't need to put up with that and feeling so bad. It's not your fault. You're being a good friend by wanting to make up but she's not so don't put that much effort in trying to fix this. Let her cool off.
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I used to have the same problems. And actually, ask yourself, is it really you who has the problem? No, it's your friend. Most likely, if she keeps being mean and won't listen to you, it's her fault. But the best thing to do first is talk with your friend, face to face. Ask her if theres anithing you could change in your friendship to make things stronger and better again. If she still doesen't listen, shes probably not a very good friend and listner. Hope I helped! -Karlie
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