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cliques
ok so im in this youth group, and everyone is very cliquey, i dont know what to do or who to talk to because i have talked to some poeple, adn they dont seem to want to help me....what does everyone think i should do?
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just try to be friends with everyone. dont be shy and not be afraid to go up to them, and if they snub you. their not that good of people to be around anyways. Thats how you really test how people are, if you go up to them and say hello, if they are nice and talk to you back. thats the people you should be around..
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heyy. i think that you should just go to each group and socialize. and smile alot! get on their good side! don't be shy, don't look down, don't be quiet. participate alot in the activities. hope i helped =]] and let me know if you have any more questions! =]]]]
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Wow the same thing happend to me. My church goes to a camp twice a year and thats where i made my friends in the group. See if there are any outside activities for your church that you can become friends with them. its a lot of fun too!! xoxo
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Dear,cliques
Belive it or not i had the same siduation not too long ago..even in youth groups you can find people in groups and it's hard i know,Have you tried talking to the youth counslers? prehaps they could arrange a few games so you could interact with everyone else,it can be hard sometimes trying to squeeze into a group because most people don't want to let others in or accept them,i'm a loner so i normally don't go to groups doesn't mean i don't try to..what i'm trying to say is take a leap and try your best to reach out,one person is bound to notice you if you try hard enough. Your friend, Violet
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