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I am confused with my parents
hi... i am really nervous and confused about my parents, my friend says she is having a little get together for her birthday but she gave my parents no info on it and didnt give me much, just the time and where she lived, i think she is putting a fast one on her parents, i dont trust her, neither do my parents. so anyways my dad mentioned he thinks he is putting a fast on her parents and he also said kids think theyre parents are stupid but theyre not and he also told me there are a lot of things that i know about, that you dont know, that i know about... and that gave me the idea he knows about things, related to this topic ^^^ but, i am a virgin, so then i think you can guess what else it has related to this topic. i feel really bad, not sad, but more like nervous and weird that my parents might actually know, i mean this is so secret and the thought of them knowing would make me feel awkward like i do now. i know they arent mad at me, they told me they did it as kids and well mom said she did.. dad never mentioned it cause he wasnt really in those 'talks' about that stuff, i usually kept a quiet mouth...i think billie joe armstrong is cute, but if i didnt i would still have my posters on my wall cause he is cool, and dad and i were wondering if we should go to pirates of the caribbean and well i told both mom and dad, mom please go with us cause dad seems to get aggrivated when i get giddy when see a movie and dad says its ok girls have a right to get giddy when they see a cute guy on tv and this makes me feel weird cause maybe he knows i have a crush on billie joe, and possibly one guy in each movie i see...this is awkard and new for me and he might know that i .(hmmm) and have a crush on guys.. i was never able to tell my crush at school when i was younger and whenever i am watching a show or movie on tv, whenever two people kiss and i am watching it with my parents, i get nervous.. oh please help me get over this nervousness,, and is there a possible chance my dad might know about small stuff, but not the sex sutff? oh please help meeee!!!!!
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Ok so the sex stuff with your dad will never get easier, I am 31, married and have a child and still at times hope my dad thinks I am a virgin...ha ha. Seriously though that is the nature sometimes of a father/daughter relationship. As for him saying he knows things, he could very well be on a fishing expedition saying he knows stuff in hopes you will confess all.
I would have talks with your mom if you feel comfortable enough, both your parents obviously love you and talking with your mom will create an open and honest relationship with her which will help you tons as you get older.
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It's always going to be awkward to watch people kissing on tv in front of your parents, but keep in mind it's just as awkward for your parents as it is for you. There isn't much you can do to get over it, accept laugh it off, and avoid eye contact. That's what I do anyways. Or just be like, "Ohhh my, haha" in a silly, joking voice.
There's a chance that your dad does know about stuff like that, and most likely so does your mom. Parents can suprise you sometimes, they know more than you think. It's kind of scary sometimes. So just be careful to keep your personal life..personal. Or at least try. Or you could just be open with your parents and tell them everything. That's how I am with my mom.
[Edit] I have a question for you. Do you not believe in rating high? The three people that have anwered your question has answered it very honestly. Especially 'SassySara' She deserves a 5. But whatever. I'm not complaining because you gave me a 3 [though I see it as being unfair] I would just like to know what type of advice you are looking for exactly. I don't see how it could get much better then what we've given you. But whatever.
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UM.. wow your problem is pretty hard, well i think that since you are a girl(and dont take this the wrong way) but he probably dosent want you learning about that stuff yet, even though you probably already know. and for your nervousness just dont think about being nervous think of something else you should always comfortable around your parents, and maybe you need to talk to your dad a little bit more without your mom around act like he is a person you just met and want to get to know, and this will also help your nervousness too!
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