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a few nights ago i was with a friend and two older boys (3 years) weve hung out before, and this guy pressured me into haveing sex with him but i wouldnt. i dont like im or anything its just a hookup. the thing is im a virgin and hes not and then i was drunk a few nights ago and ended up doing something im starting to really regret. sex. i lost my virginity to someone i dont even like he made it seem like it wasnt a big deal and everyones had it so i just gave in. at first i was okay with it but now im starting to think.. what am i going to telll my next boyfriend? or my friends? i dont know if i should just forget about this whole thing and say im a virgin. im just getting upset and i dont know who to turn to and im not going to a councelor or anything. i guessi just need some moral support.. thank you
and no we did not use a condom, we were in a hot tub and he swore to me that he would pull out before, but we didnt even get that far into it i think. plus hs going off to college and hates kids. so im pretty sure im safe. please help thank you (link)
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Sorry to tell you but you were raped because you were drunk and even though you consented, that is still rape you need to tell someone peferably your parents
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hi... i am really nervous and confused about my parents, my friend says she is having a little get together for her birthday but she gave my parents no info on it and didnt give me much, just the time and where she lived, i think she is putting a fast one on her parents, i dont trust her, neither do my parents. so anyways my dad mentioned he thinks he is putting a fast on her parents and he also said kids think theyre parents are stupid but theyre not and he also told me there are a lot of things that i know about, that you dont know, that i know about... and that gave me the idea he knows about things, related to this topic ^^^ but, i am a virgin, so then i think you can guess what else it has related to this topic. i feel really bad, not sad, but more like nervous and weird that my parents might actually know, i mean this is so secret and the thought of them knowing would make me feel awkward like i do now. i know they arent mad at me, they told me they did it as kids and well mom said she did.. dad never mentioned it cause he wasnt really in those 'talks' about that stuff, i usually kept a quiet mouth...i think billie joe armstrong is cute, but if i didnt i would still have my posters on my wall cause he is cool, and dad and i were wondering if we should go to pirates of the caribbean and well i told both mom and dad, mom please go with us cause dad seems to get aggrivated when i get giddy when see a movie and dad says its ok girls have a right to get giddy when they see a cute guy on tv and this makes me feel weird cause maybe he knows i have a crush on billie joe, and possibly one guy in each movie i see...this is awkard and new for me and he might know that i .(hmmm) and have a crush on guys.. i was never able to tell my crush at school when i was younger and whenever i am watching a show or movie on tv, whenever two people kiss and i am watching it with my parents, i get nervous.. oh please help me get over this nervousness,, and is there a possible chance my dad might know about small stuff, but not the sex sutff? oh please help meeee!!!!! (link)
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UM.. wow your problem is pretty hard, well i think that since you are a girl(and dont take this the wrong way) but he probably dosent want you learning about that stuff yet, even though you probably already know. and for your nervousness just dont think about being nervous think of something else you should always comfortable around your parents, and maybe you need to talk to your dad a little bit more without your mom around act like he is a person you just met and want to get to know, and this will also help your nervousness too!
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When I had my last boyfriend everything would always go so great and after about 6 months we were both inlove and I really loved this guy! But then about 3 months later we were laying in his backyard in the hammock his arm was around me and we were just relaxing then i decided to put my hand on his chest and give him a kiss so i did and he pushed me out of the hammock smacked me and told me don't touch me so i ran away crying...i didn't talk to him for a couple weeks but he kept calling so i answered
~Convo~
me-what do you want?
him-im sorry i love you
me-too bad
and i hung up
then when my dog passed away he came over with flowers my mom didn't want him to come up to my room because i was really upset but she finally let him, then he started kissing me and telling me he was truley sorry so i forgave him and for about 3 more month it was all good and back to normal then again one night we were watching a movie in his basement (his parents weren't home only his bro and his gf) and we were all watching a movie and he kissed me and we started kissing then i put my hand on his cheek a little bit and he pushed away and was like dont ever do that again and threw the movie case at me and his brother tried to stop him but he just went mad at started punching me and his brother while his girlfriend tried to do somethin --im not really sure what--
So my question is I still love him, I know I shouldn't but I really love him I mean we have been together for about 2 years but stuff like this keeps randomly happening! I thought this guy was really right for me and sometimes he treats me really nice but others he hurts me phsically and mentally...I just want a guy to treat me right thats why Im trying to forgive him again but I can't just forgive and forget I'm scared something like this will happen again PLEASE help! (link)
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Well...you should break up with him if he keeps on doing this randomly then one day he might get really physical on you and hurt you,this is a start of an abusive relationship and it needs to end quickly or you are going to get seriously hurt and end up in the hospital.
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