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a big bitch
there is this girl at my school that is a total bitch to everyone including me. she is really rude to me and my friends and says bad things about them to me. it bothers me alot but i just keep my mouth shut. i want to stick up for myself but i want to be the bigger person and instead of blowing up on her. should i keep quiet or say something?
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I don't know, I think that in this situation, being the bigger person requires you to stand up for you and for your friends. You're already the bigger person by not being the one going behind other peoples' backs and talking about them. Tell her that whatever she has to say, she can say to someone else, you don't have to be rude about it, just say that you don't care what she has to say about you or your friends. By being quiet, all you're really doing is keeping all of your anger in, this way you'd atleast be able to tell her off without saying anything mean about her to her. If she doesn't stop, ignore her, it'll drive her crazy. Hopefully she'll stop, and if she doesn't then there's nothing you can really do except go on living your life as if she weren't a part of it. Good luck with everything :)
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