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i don't have a bf!
so ive turned 18 most of my friends are in relationships and im not i feel really low sometimes because im not like ugly or anything or fat i keep thinking why do i not have a bf! Ive just never found anyone i could say yeh ive been in love with him,all i keep thinking about is my x and he was very mean to me im still a virgin and im getting old now someone please help! i mean also there was a x i still kind of like but i duno if he still likes me.
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I know this sounds cliche, but wait for the right person. There's nothing wrong with not having a boyfriend. It's better to be single and availble for the right guy that to see someone just because you want a boyfriend.
You are not "getting old" at all, that's rediclous. There is nothing wrong with being a virgin, and when the time comes for you, you'll be glad you waited. (Which in my opinion should be after you are mairred, but yeah..)
The only way to know if your ex still likes you is if you stay in touch with him. However, if he was mean to you, don't go back to him just for the reason above. Hope I helped!
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Hi, I wouldn't say you were getting old. In fact your quite young and it is quite normal not to have a boyfriend. The only way to get a boyfriend is to go up and talk to guys and flirt. Show your face a bit more and let them know using body language or by hanging around that your single and are ready for a boyfriend and a relationship. I know what you mean, when some teenagers havn't been in a relationship or havn't had sex they can tend to feel depressed, ugly, unwanted and old. Don't show a guy that your desperate because if they find that out they could mess about with you. Make sure that your ready though. Disco's and clubs are great places to meet guys. Just think of places were guys go and be there. Flirt around, have fun. Your still a young teenage girl and have alot going for you. Daniel.
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Well honey i've been there too i'm 21 and i have not been in a relationship for damn near 3 yrs no one satisfies me because I keep comparing everyone to my ex who was also very abusive toward we use to fight all the time and he made me feel like that's all i deserved but the truth is I and you deserve so much not ever guy is going to be like your ex I know it's hard to get over your ex but trust me in due time the right guy will just be there and you will know it's right only your heart can tell you what's right no one else can as for this ex you kind of like keep him as your ex and don't go back to him because there is a reason y he became your ex in the first place you are still young and i give you mad props for staying a virgin that is awesome keep it
<3 heather
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I honestly know how you feel, but don't let it stand in your way. As the others have said, you're still young! Don't worry about it. You have a whole life to live, and much time to get a boyfriend and such. I honestly wouldn't dwell on it. Get some of your single friends together and go out and party! Have a good time... And don't worry about not having a boyfriend. You'll find the right guy soon enough.
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a relationship isn't something you should worry about too much. yeah most people are in one, but don't feel left out. it just means you haven't found the right guy yet. he'll come by sometime in your life. don't worry about ex's. if it was meant to be then he'll treat you the way you want to be treated and should be treated. don't worry about an ex liking you. just sit back, relax, and enjoy the single life while you can.
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