|
How Can You Tell Its Love?
Ok here is is my question: I went to prom with this guy and hes totally amazing and we've been hanging out for a while. Well at the afterprom i got really tired and he got a little tipsy. (id been hearing that he wanted to ask me out from friends) well while i was almost asleep he softly kissed me a few times. i was so amazed! but then he later on in the night he whispered to me that he loves me, and he said u may not believe me but i do. I didnt say anything back and he seemed a little disappointed and hurt- i didnt knw whether to believe him- but i love him too!. Anyway when i asked him about it the next day he like changed his answer and said that he doesnt knw what love is and that saying i love you is like saying i like you. But i really want to knw if he loves me or not, b.c ive been hurt before and i dont want to express my feelings without being sure. He really seems like he loves me, he kisses everyone of my fingers and then my hands, he sung "your beautiful to me" lol, he calls and texts me just to say hey, he holds my hand all the time! and when he asked me out he announced it to the room of friends of ours! What am i supposed to think? and what are some signs he loves you?
[ ]
Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category?
Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life?
Hi, it does sound a wee bit like love. But it could also be lust. Heres the difference:
LUST: sexual desire for, fantasize about you, feel horny towards, wanting sex, like your looks
LOVE: strong affection for, likes you because he feels affection and likes you for who you are, feels romance towards you
Note: lust is usually when someone hasn't known someone for a while were as love is the opposite.
Some signs that he loves you is:
Looks you in the eyes
Shows romance
Gives you lots of hugs
Shows affection and tells you he loves you
Plays lovely nice music
Smiles and enjoys your company
Although he may feel lust. I suppose lust is all the sexual desire and stuff like that were as love is deep affection and liking. Daniel.
]
Maybe he was embarrased that you didn't tell him that you loved him back.
Just wait for the right opportunity to tell him that you love him and see what his reaction is.
There are no signs that someone loves you that just comes naturally and you'll just know.
If you've been hurt before, tell him. It sounds like to me that he REALLY likes you.
Maybe he does love you...if he doesn't now in time he will. If he treats you like you are the world to him then you have a special guy and he obviously wants to have a great relationship with you.
If you don't want to get hurt either tell him or take things slow. Don't get to attached to start off with.
hope i helped
]
you can't have love signs because not everyone expresses love the same,but if you really want to know let him know you love him without saying it first or when he does something nice say something like my boyfriend must really love me (not exactly that make it fit your personality)and wath his response.
]
Is it Love?,
The bottom line on this issue that I think you should know is that you should never modify how you feel just because someone else does not reciprocate the same feelings, especially concerning Love. Love has many layers and it isn't possible for any of us to fully understand the entirety of the layers until we become much older or have experienced it all. If you feel like you need to say you love him, then do it. Honor yourself and your feelings by speaking your Truth. It doesn't matter about the past and the hurt from the past, enjoy the NOW. That is what life is about, maybe if you can embrace the real way you feel you can be honest and open about your relationship and it can flourish into something extremely beautiful. Only then will you experience the many layers of Love. If he said it to you, honor the fact on how he felt in the moment. If you do not feel the same, you can always say thank you. When someone offers you a voice of Love, you should always be thankful that they took the time to express themselves in a vulnerable way. Maybe if you look at it that way, you can be free with your emotions. Love is not dependent on someone else’s actions...it just IS.
]
I havent really had a love but i would say that thowes would be some good signs! i would confront him with the fact that you think you love him or that you really like him but in private. and i would like you to rember that your graduateing from high school(i think) so you should rember that you midght not see him because of different schools. but tell him before you lose the chance..
i hope i helped...
]
More Questions: |