okay lately my boyfriend has been saying he doesnt think I like him anymore, but the thing is..i LOVE him and i shouldnt have to convince him that. but last night he called my house at midnight and then hung up, and when i called back he said"nevermind". after minutes of begging him to tell me he told me that he called because he doesnt think i like him anymore. hes done this many times before and we've been together for a long time. i just dont understand..i always tell him i love him..what could be making him think this way??
if anyone can help me with this i'd be really thankful!
icey0990 answered Saturday July 1 2006, 1:23 am: Your bf just wants a little reassurance. everyone needs it sometimes. even though my bf is wonderful and sweet..sometimes im like always wanting hugs or to cuddle with him more than usual. you can make everything better very easily..some suggestions are:
-burning a cd of pretty love songs,making him a candle lit dinner (my bf did the dinner thing for me and it almost made me cry) and cuddle up and watch a movie
-make him a card listing everything you love about him
-giving him a photo album of you two
-maybe in your card list your favorite memories together..or write him a love letter
some of these sound cheesy but trust me..it will make your bf feel awesome! and it will get rid of any doubt in his mind. the columnist who told you actions speak louder than words..is absolutely right! so showwww him with these ideas i told you..that you love him verrry much!
good luck tell me how it goes!
:)
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JazzyGotDaAnswer answered Friday June 30 2006, 6:24 pm: like my boyfriend always tell me actions can say a thousand words. which means you can say you love him all day somepeople need to be shown. actions always speak louder than words.
aShKnOWs answered Friday June 30 2006, 6:24 pm: Wow that guy sounds like me. Its not that he doesnt think that you DONT LOVE HIM anymore, its that maybe he has soooooooooooooooo much fealings for you that wen you dont always show it he gets a little fuzzed? you know? well try sitting down and talking to him about how much you love him, ask him why he feels that way. I feal the same way with my bf that ive been dating for two years and sumtimes you just forget. Try saying something spontanuous to him...bE LIKe baby your so beautiful...just load him with compliments..lol!
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