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Comparing too much
Question no. 1: Do any of you guys tend to compare your looks to your friends around you?
I do and I hate that. Because whenever I'm near a pretty friend, i'd start to feel like I'm very ugly because I dun look better than her. We have to admit that we do tend to compare people we see on the streets like for eg, this guy looks better than his friend beside him, etc.
OK case 2, there are 2 girls, one very good looking(A) and the other not so good looking(B). And the wierd thing is, there are cases in which people will not compare A and B and will actually see them as each having their own beauty, and both as pretty as the other.
Question no. 2: How do I get to the stage whereby people will not compare me and my friend and see me and my friend as each having our own form of beauty? Meaning to say, see both of us as equally attractive individuals?
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what you need is to be more self confident and believe that youve got something pretty about you that your friend dosent and vice versa.you need to be confident to feel that ppl see you both as equally attractive individuals...mabey they do but you dont feel it due to the lack of self confidence you have.and try to be satisfied with your looks and know that you look a lot better than alot of other ppl
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Yes, i totally do it too. People just tend to judge other people by the way they look. I just ignore it because everyone is beautiful in their own way. If you guys dress alike, act like eachother, and do everything the same people will look at you like your the same. I`m not sure if your really want to be just like your friend, but don`t change your appearance to much or act just like her. That`s what makes friendships better because you look different and have different personalities. ♥
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Yeah we all do, but I'm pretty confident in myself. I'm to a point in my life where that I do think I'm pretty and I think my friends are too. We all arent perfect, so its okay.
Well one things is if you dont compare people, you shouldnt compare yourself then. You cant let people think they are more prettier than you, or worth more. Dont let people label you as "kind pretty" "okay." "so/so" "goregous!" as long as your are happy with yourself, or atleast learn to be happy with yourself, its a good place to start.
Okay, well if you dont want people comparing you, you shoudlnt compare them either.
Dont say one is prettier than the other, because thats usually not the case. Everyone is goregous in their own unique way.
If you start to learn to love yourself and stop comparing people,, they will see your confidence and stop comparing you, and even if they continue to cmpare you - you shouldnt care, becuase their opinion on what you look like shouldnt matter.
People are always goign to judge and compare,
but you really have to get over it.
You cant make anyone see two people as the same attractiveness. Because some people just honestly dont see two people the same atractiveness. But taht doenst mean the other person is less or more attractive.
It all depends on the person, and you cant change people, buty ou ccan change your attitude on whatyou think about people.
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Answer no.1 : Yes, I`ll be honest & tell you that I also compare myself to my best freind. Sometimes I would feel jelous & tell her that for (ex. her outfits looks ugly & her hair is messed up just for her to change it.)But that`s just my opinion of her.
You should never feel ugly because god made us all different for a reason.& I also compare people on the streets. I might say one person looks hotter than the other but my friends might say the oppisite like I said all people have diffrernt opinions.
Answer no.2: To tell you the truth there will always way someone will <b>not</b> compare you & your friend together.Some people will say omg you both look soo pretty & someone else might say wow you look way prettier than her but not tell you. No one is perfect & someone might look better on the outside but that person could have the ugliest peosonalitly inside. & everyone has their own form of beauty but other people will never get to notice that.
I know this was a long answer but I hope you understand what I`m trying to say.
Hope I helped ♥
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