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im confused.


Question Posted Tuesday July 15 2008, 6:55 am

Hey, Are you considered a lesbian if you get turned on by other girls kissing like 2 girls kissing each other?

[im a girl myself]

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amber_x answered Thursday July 17 2008, 9:07 pm:
Sounds like your bisexual.
You have to enjoy doing things with girls yourself to actually be a lesbian.

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iieee answered Wednesday July 16 2008, 8:21 am:
This could just be my opinion, but I don't think people are lesbians or gay unless they can truly feel an emotional connection with someone of the same sex. I mean if you can actually see yourself having a future with someone of the same sex, and dating them for awhile without feeling like you're missing out on the opposite sex, then you may be a lesbian... but I mean if you think about it a lot of people just say they're "bi" or a lesbian when in reality they're only sexually attracted to that person. I'm not saying all lesbians are like that, but I'm just saying I define homosexuals as someone who feels they can fall in love with someone of the same sex.


However, being turned on by that doesn't make you a lesbian.
It's normal... you could just be curious.
Or interested.
Either way, I don't think it makes you a lesbian.

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xcheerbabex108 answered Tuesday July 15 2008, 3:49 pm:
Not necessarily. You could just get turned on by it, it's normal, for both sexes, whether you're straight, bi, or gay/lesbian.

Now, if you like kissing/having sex with/dating another girl, that could make you a lesbian.

But if you like doing that with a guy, you could be bisexual.

If you just like doing those things with a guy only, then you're straight.

If anything, you'd have to experiment and see for yourself.


Jess

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karenR answered Tuesday July 15 2008, 11:53 am:
You are not considered a Lesbian until you have sex with another female and you don't get turned on by
guys at all.

You are not considered bisexual unless you have sex with females and males. Not at the same time, but you like sex with either sex.

You can get turned on watching about anything
intimate between people of either sex. It does
not make you a lesbian though. :)

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grndayfrk13 answered Tuesday July 15 2008, 11:12 am:
Your not really considered 'lesbian' if you may get turned on by girls kissing. In any event, there is a possibility that you are bisexual..But it's really up to you. People are different, they all get turned on by different things.

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