Theres this kid, that I like, well he wanted to bang me, & he got mad because I wouldn't.. but now were ok again, should I not talk to him though anymore? because he wanted to bang me, & everything? I really like him. But, I'm only 13. & like hes kinda a bad kid. & all my friends say to stay away from him. But, I just really need another persons opinion. Please help me out.!
naturally_sadie answered Thursday June 29 2006, 9:52 pm: You're lucky you have friends that guide you in the right direction! They are telling you to do the right thing, so listen to them! This kid seems like all he wants is sex. If he didn't care about sex, he would have asked you out and loved you no matter if you wanted sex or not. Since he got mad at you for not having sex with him, it shows that he doesn't really care about you and he's more into sex. Your best bet would be to stay away from him. If you go out with him he is going to try to push you into things you don't want to do, just like he did before. He's deffinitely not worth it, and I promise you if you do something sexual with him, you are going to regret it! It doesn't sound like he truley loves you so just stay away from him and don't worry you'll find another guy.
xomichelle891xo answered Thursday June 29 2006, 6:41 pm: I think you should break things off with this kid. I mean, if he was mad at you for not having sex he obviously doesnt care about your feelings. He just wants sex. Sometimes 13 year old boys are like that. But, I strongly advise you NOT to have sex. If you start hanging out with him again, he might pressure you enough to do it or other things. So, why take a chance of getting pressured into doing something you'll regret? [ xomichelle891xo's advice column | Ask xomichelle891xo A Question ]
chakra answered Thursday June 29 2006, 6:30 pm: You should deffinatly stay away from him, he got mad at you because you wouldnt have sex with him, he's a user and he's manipulative (getting mad at you because you wont do what he wants).
ALso, if he used the words "bang you" then he obviously doesnt care about you or love you, theres no love or tenderness there, and you are only a child.
dont let him use you or treat you like this again, just stay away from him x [ chakra's advice column | Ask chakra A Question ]
cookierat123 answered Thursday June 29 2006, 5:01 pm: ok listen, from experience, if your friends say to stay away from him, it probably means that you should. I know it may not seem like it but sometimes if we want to beleive something so bad then we do. your only 13 and if he got mad because you wouldnt let him "bang" you then he really isnt the type of guy to hang out with. im not saying people cant change but most likely if it involves negitive peer peressure then you should stay away. hope i helped. [ cookierat123's advice column | Ask cookierat123 A Question ]
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