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Fading Fast
My best friend and I were so close at the end of the school year and actually since last year. I love her so much and trust her with everything and we are crazy together, aka we are best friends. Now that it is summer she is always off at camp or at her boyfriend's house. I have been busy too (with other friends and my horses and stuff) but I always get the time to call her. She usually only talks for a few minutes and then goes to her boyfriend's house. I just don't want our friendship to fade and, at the end of the school year, she told me that I had better keep in touch over the summer. It isn't as if she is my only friend by a long shot but she is one of the best I've ever had. I fricken love that girl so much. What do I do?
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You have to talk to her, make her realise that she is your best friend and she hardly has time for you anymore.
Make her aware that this is happening and that you want to remain friends.
Tell her that she is suppose to be your best friend but she's not making any effort to remain in contact and that you miss her and you want your best friend back!
hope i helped.
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This is happening to me as we speak, so I know how you feel. The simpilest thing to do is during one of you phone conversations just be like, Hey blah blah blah. I have something really imprtant we need tot alk about ( To get her attention.) and tell her that you two need to set up some time together. Good girl to girl best friend talk is always good for you! If she doesn't like the idea of spending some time away from her boyfriend, then either A: tell her that it's just one day (And try to make that day awsomely awsome, so she'll want to hang with you more.) or B: as the person below me said, maybe
it IS time for a new friend. <-- but that should only happen if nothing else works O.k? don't just call her and start yelling at her first off.
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well i dont think this will help...because the person who answered just told me that maybe it was time for a new friend....people come and go she said...
i dont want that...and im sure you don't want that with your friend...so rate this like a 1 or something...
friendships are waaaay to complicated!
by the way...its ok...thanx for looking
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