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best friend or boyfriend?
Hey well me and my best friend spend all kinds of time togehter...but ever since she got a bf that can drive shes been spending all her time with him! Dont get me wrong we still hang out alot but shes kinda been blowin me off for him and i feel like im losing her to her boyfriend:( what to do:(
*catherine* 15/f
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i think you need to talk to your best friend and tell her how your feeling and see what she says if she thinks your wrong then shes not a real friend but if that doesn't work then i don't know what else will but i tried
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What i would do is... ask her if you all can spend time together including her boyfriend maybe sometimes. Also, tell her how you feel! And once again she does need to have some alone time with her bf however she should be hangin out with you a little more.
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well my sister is like that to her friend. you cant think she can blowoff her bf but she also shouldnt blow you off. well make plans with her. and if she blows you off for her b/f on that day talk to her about it. but she has a new bf and she needs to spend time with him.
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it happens to all of us at one point.. or we do it to our friends.. buttt yeah you kinda just gotta go with it. dont let her completely forget about you and if it gets COMPLETELY crazy tell her shes forgeting you.. thats it. thats all you can do. soon enough she will come around. friends always come before guys (:
good luck.
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I think it's pretty much normal to feel left out when someone your really close to seems to be pulling away, but in this case it is also very normal at this age to want to spend almost every waking hour with your crush! When you start to get bothered by the time she is spending with him just stop and think about the Hot Guy you are crushing on and exactly how much time you would want to spend with him if he asked you out? I think somewhere there you will find your answer, not that she is any less a friend she is just a friend with a boyfriend too, sharing sux but we all gotta give a little!
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