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Could someone boost my confidence
Hey people. I've been a columnist for a short time, only from May 30, 2006. I love giving advice, and my rating is a 5. I love to read medical books, especially about puberty and stuff. Some girl here told me I know nothing about sex! Now I know that's not true, but whenever I'm insulted, my confidence goes down. And I enjoy advicenators, and helping people. Can someone say anything to boost my confidence up. And my columnist name is Triple.G, can you go there, scan my answers, and tell me if I do give bad sex advice? Thanks.
I'm in a sad mood, so I'll just give 5's.
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I too enjoy giving advice, and it does hurt a bit when someone gives you a bad rating. You really shouldn't take it personally. Sometimes when people give bad ratings it's because the truth hurts or you didn't tell them what they wanted to hear. Don't worry about it, just do your best and keep giving advice. It will be appreciated.
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I think that you are knowledgable about sex and things similar to that. People might say you don't know anything becasue THEY don't know anything or becaseut he answer you gave is not what they believe or not what they find to be true, but that doesn't mean your answe r isn't true. Don't worry, it happens to everybody. I think that your answers are very good and that you get to the point and tell them what you think and that is what most people want to hear. Don't be sad, cheer up and its okay!
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well your bound to find someone who will think your wrong when your probnly just to smart for them to understand you and what helps for me is to remember its only there opion and your could try giving then a website that would prove your right at the end on your advice and i think you have brilliant awsers ---i hope i made you feel better--ALLEY
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It happens to everybody, I assure you. Ralph Waldo Emerson was critiscized, but he dealt with it, and he's the awesomest writer of all time. I think so, anyway. I've been insulted a lot of times, and over the years I've become better at dealing. You need to learn to laugh about it. None of these people know you anyway, and they must really have such an exciting life that they need to insult total strangers online. Looking over your column, I think you're doing a fantastic job. So you don't know everything about sex. I know a lot about it, but not everything--nobody knows everything. Sometimes people are just picky. Keep up the good work!
-Lea
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Your column looks pretty good to me TripleG.
Keep in mind that not everyone who asks questions
is a teenager. Reading medical books is okay but
unless you have some knowledge it can be misinterpreted. Just give a link to where you found the info.
If you have no first hand knowledge of ANY subject, it is better to pass the question up. Not everyone here knows everything after all.
You have continued to improve over the past couple of months and you learn pretty quick. Just answer the ones you know about and you will do fine.
Oh, and don't just answer 5's and don't put that on questions anymore. A lot are being deleted and
made to rewrite them for putting that on.
I didn't delete yours because I know you will rate fairly...right? I'm using your question to get the word out so don't think I am picking on you or anything. ;)
I couldn't find on your column where someone got after you for that. If you have a link send it to me and I will check the specific question they were talking about for you.
Don't let others discourage you. Sometimes people aren't very nice. Your column looks fine to me. :)
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