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Im so confused.
Ok there is this guy I like, lets call him Mike. So Mike is a year older than me (I am 15). So last week, he asked me if I wanted to go to the movies. We ended up going Friday with some of my friends and in the beginning I felt bad because I was kind of ignoring him. I was really like..scared which was why I was ignoring him (I know, it doesn't make any sense)
After the movie was over and everyone left but the both of us, we talked for a bit until my dad came to get me.
So then a day later, Sunday we talked for a little.
Then since he mentioned the day we were at the movies about just the two of us going next time, I asked him online and he was all like "It sounds like fun" and then said Wednesday would be the best and he hasnt brought it up since then.
It just seems like hes lost interest in me because a couple of days ago he would IM me as soon as I got online. He doesn't do that anymore and he barely talks to me. I asked him why he doesn't call me and he said its because his cell is broken or something. I don't know what I should do anymore. Any suggestions?
Ps. I rate 5's
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It's probablly because he thinks that you're not overly excited to talk with him, so he doesn't want to act like a fool and talk to you a lot when it looks like you don't even seem interested. Yous should try to start the conversations more, and don't ignore him when you're with you're other friends, then he'll feel like you actually want to talk to him, so he'll probablly feel the same again.
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Just tell him that the reason you were shy on your first date was because you really like him and you were nervous. He probaly thought you weren't intrested.
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I think maybe since you ignored him, he thought he was bugging you too much, so he is just cutting things down notch.
Anyways you can try calling him , and IMing him, the guy doesnt have to do everything all the time you know? :)
Just dont be afraid when you are with him, he cares about you it sounds like - especially since he wants to spend time one on one, if you like him, you should let him know, before he gets discouraged.
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I think you should talk to him and ask if everything is still up for wednesday. If he says yes, than great. If he says no, well then you'll just have to accept it. There are plenty of fish in the sea. As for the not talking to you as much anymore, guys are often like that. They give many mixed signals. I have found that playing hard to get often does work. (perhaps that''s what he's doing)... Next time you see him, just look absolutely fabulous and he'll eventually begin to talk more. Guys take a while to open up too. Once you get to know him better on a more BF/GF level, things should work out
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