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why are they like that?
man there's this "click" at my school that i'm not apart of and lets just say their names are tina and megan. they think they own everything they come up with! i mean like they put their name like this .name*. i mean just because they use that does it mean it belongs to them? they're calling me a biter just because my cousin changed my sn on my myspace and on my msn! now they keep on harassing me about it! i mean me and tina used to be best of friends until 6th grade when she started hanging out with 7b girls. and megan doesn't even know me that well. she is such a bitch! i don't mean to be rude but like it's just what she is! what should i do? i mean they think they own everything they start using! like they got mad at my close friend just cause she started using a bag from LeSportsac. is it right that they torment the people who aren't in their "click"? what should i do? should i tell them to back off? or should i tell them taht everything they use isn't just for them? i seriously need some advice!
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<3.christina*
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don't even waste your time talking to them about it. they're not worth your time. i know a bunch of kids like that who i "thought" were my friends, and i learned the hard way that you shouldn't even bother explaining how you feel because it will probably just backfire and the best thing to do is to just stop talking to them. delete them off your friends list on myspace and block them on your AIM screen name. it's really the best thing to do. if you don't talk to them, drama can't start. i'm sure you have a lot of nicer friends because you seem like an incredible person so i'm sure you're good friends with tons of other class mates. hang out with different people and don't even worry about those other girl's clique. megan and tina obviously arn't your friends at all so don't even bother trying to get in their clique. you will learn that people like that have something wrong with them. clique's are really stupid and they make people feel hurt and left out. just don't let those 2 girls get to you because you're way better than them.
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seriously- tell them that they really, truly have no lives. if theyre that obsessed about dumb stuff now- just picture them all in a trailer park with 13 kids- because thats exaclty how they are going to end up. theres no way they can tell you not to wear something- thats rediculous. people just listen to them because its the 'right' thing to do. but there is nothing about them that makes them right. they really truly are lames. ive never heard of anythng so dumb. theyre thetype of people that as soon as theyre out of high school, and have no one left to torment arent going to know what the heck to do. but let them learn that on their own. as far as for now- id say do exaclty what you want- and GO AGAINST what they do, and what they dont like. dont be like everyone else, or otherwise they'll always think theyre the stuff. hope i helped.
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Tell them off.
Thats the best I can think of.
If they keep harassing you and keep messing around with you like that, you need to stand up for yourself. It isn't as hard as you think. I used to be shy until this girl started being rude..
girl - *cut in front of me in the lunch line to join her other giddy friends* excuse you, uhm, excuse you.
me - excuse me? yeah whatever. *cuts in front of her*
girl - ughh! stop that! i was here before you.
me - *mocking her* ugh like totally! like, um. GO BACK TO WHERE YOU WERE AT.
girl - *rolls eyes and shoves me aside a little*
*friends start to laugh*
me - *mocks laughing* *smiles* *steps in front of her again and gets lunch, pays, and leaves*.
Easy as that. If they see that you're not standing up for yourself, they'll know that you aren't standing up for yourself and they'll keep doing it.
<3 Sima ;;
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