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Kissing?
I got my first kiss from this guy the other day, and it was so weird. Are you supposed to kiss with your mouth open pretty wide? He like leaned it, got my upper lip, then got the skin between my nose and upper lip all wet. It was really gross and ackward, I haven't kissed much before, so I was wondering is that how your supposed to kiss? If not, please tell me how! ( And I already read the myjellybean.com thing so please don't link me to that! )
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ha. okay, first, all first kisses are akward, mine was a lot worse (i will not go into detail, just know, it was <u> bad </u>)
there is no one way to kiss, or right way or whatever
just whatever feels right.
but, if you feel you need help, go to B&N or Borders and get the book
"Kissing : Everything You Ever Wanted to Know About One of Life's Sweetest Pleasures"
its by Andrea Demirjian
good read :)
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Look, if your not ready for that, or for that matter don't know how, just give him a peck on the cheek and tell him that you want to keep it (your relationship) at that level for awhile.
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well, honestly- theres not really an EXACT way of how you should or should not kiss- it just kind of happens. ive gotten huge wet kisses, to sloppy gros kisses- to gentle ones to meaningful ones, and theyre all diffrent. ithonestly sounds to me like this guy hasnt kissed very man people before. but another thing- you can tell a person- the real them- by the way they kiss. usually if they kiss all slopy like that and dont seem to really mean it- then you can usually assume that thats how theyre personality is. i guess the main thing is- did he ask to kiss you, or did he just bite your mouth off out of nowhere. a sweet guy usually asks first, and it shows that he cares. but thats something you have to decide for yourself. hope i helped!
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Kissing,
Actually, your expereince does sound a bit ackward. Sometimes the first kiss can be a bit ackward and it really depends on the style of the person. Not all kisses will be that messy and obnoxious. If you find that your partner is a little over the top for your style, pull back a bit and try to incorporate your style with the kiss. If the partner is not receptive, you may need to communicate what you like. There is no right or wrong way to kiss...it's all up to the individual. Remember kissing is just an expression of feelings...so everyone kisses a bit differently.
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