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oh gosh
theres a whole long backround story im not getting into details with but basicly...
me and this kid, lets call him Chris, had a HUGE history and we went out and a lot of stuff. Well this other girl, lets call her Kim (shes a grade older), and him had a tiny history but she really liked him. Ok so me and Chris were finally doing good as friends but we were flirting all day and texting eachother and everything. So then that night we were on a boat and he was allllll over me. I figured he was using me because he did this before but hes a sweet talker and im a sucker so i went with the flow.
Then we started really getting like into eachother. But then he was standing next to me outside of the boat and just started making out with me but i thought it was just a kiss on the lips but it wasnt. I pulled away because 1. teachers were around and 2. i didnt want to do this right now.
So then Kim starts freaking out and gets all of her friends, who used to be my friends to hate me. They all started IMing me saying OMG YOUR A B*TCH HOW COULD YOU GET IN THE MIDDLE OF CHRIS AND KIM YOU SL*T I CANT BELIEVE YOU DID THAT!
and now basicly i have no friends. so i dont know what to do everyone hates me and i didnt do anything.
me and chris were talking and i said sorry kim is mad at him and then i was like..wait no im not i didnt do anything im not sorry. he was like yeah i know. and then i told one of the girls who hates me the true story of what i just wrote here and she asked chris and chris said no it was my fualt and i was all over him!!
its all messed up i need some advice. i dont know what im going to do. now i have like literally 5 friends!!
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it's not your fault. just dont' worry about it. let people think what they want to think. and that kim girl don't pay any attention to her. she's just jealous of you. if people are calling you names because of something someone tells them which isn't true you don't have to explain it to them. just remember let people think what they wanna think. all that matters is that you know what really happened. good luck and have an awesome summer! bye
-.christina*
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you didnt do anything wrong- and it sounds like an issue of jealousy. if she wasnt so overprotective of this guy, and so insecure- then she wouldnt mind the fact that HE was the one kissing you. if she cant see that, and wants to put all the blame on her- then thats her insecurity talking. another thing- always remember- once you graduate, and leave high school, none ofthis petty stuf will matter- because thats all this is- is petty stuff.stop worrying about what other people think about you.
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Drama, drama, drama.. wow. Your friends aren't your real friends what so ever. You need to talk to Chris and tell him to stop lieng to everyone and he needs to stop acting like a fag! You didn't do anything and there wasn't anything really going on with him and Kim besides that she likes him. Tell her to stop being a little brat and just to grow up. If they don't want to belive you, oh well. You deserve better friends and you shouldn't be sorry and don't even be nice to them because they don't deserve it. You know you're not a slut and that's all that really matters. Just talk to Chris and tell him to stop being a fag and to stop lieng. Make him tell them the truth. I think he's just doing this because he loves the attention and wants you and Kim to fight over him. Show him that you're not interested and let Kim act like a friggin brat!
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